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Old 05-23-2016, 03:34 PM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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In addition to breathing a deep sigh of relief that this guy is out of your life, you should be seriously looking at the guy friend. Any friend that would advise you to get back together with the felon is not your friend and does not have your best interests at heart.
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Old 05-23-2016, 03:38 PM
 
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You guys I also found out he's probably gay also
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Old 05-23-2016, 03:41 PM
 
Location: The Great Northern Plains
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You guys I also found out he's probably gay also
Huh? So he had a girlfriend (you) and cheated with another girl, but he's gay? What evidence is there of that?
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Old 05-23-2016, 04:47 PM
 
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You guys I also found out he's probably gay also
Ha ha ha! You sure do have a messed up guy picker.
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Old 05-23-2016, 04:51 PM
 
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His cousin just told me but it might be a lie. Bottomline it's over between us
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Old 05-23-2016, 04:58 PM
 
Location: Mesa
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I am happy with my decision and wanted to know should I keep calling or texting him for clarification or move on with my life?
Move on. Even if you find web dating or "getting to know someone" as innocent you have to consider that he is not focused on you. What do you think you could expect in the future years when average relationships start to strain?

Maybe you feel an empty hollowness now but it will go away. And if by chance you meet a nice guy soon very quickly you'll barely remember what's-his-name.

Relationships are hard enough to maintain without starting out without trust.
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Old 05-23-2016, 05:01 PM
 
Location: Mesa
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Bottomline it's over between us
There it is. You just answered your own question.
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Old 05-23-2016, 05:25 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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The drama! To get involved with a felon as though it's nothing...then all he does is text someone (you didn't say "sext", right?) and you go off the deep end! And within 24 hours you're back online yourself. Not much of a relationship for either of you so you dodged a bullet. But why do I sense you'll be back together as soon as he can spin a better story and sweet talk you? Don't fall for it - him or any other felon.
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Old 05-23-2016, 05:28 PM
 
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I put this post here because I wanted to know a general consensus. Regardless of what people say I am done with him
And what difference does the ill informed opinion of random strangers make?
Apparantly you are not "done with him" because you started a thread about him.
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Old 05-23-2016, 08:30 PM
 
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My, my. You dodged a bullet.

It would be a good idea to spend a few sessions with a therapist to figure yourself out. Otherwise you risk getting involved with another guy like this.
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