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Old 05-25-2016, 09:39 AM
 
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Yup.

OP, you want a servant and a cash cow while carefully guarding your virginity. Who on earth is going to go for that? And why? Get yourself together and have something to offer before trying to date.

 
Old 05-25-2016, 10:58 AM
 
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The only red flag here is the OP who has nothing to offer.


Doesn't work or wants to work.
Lives with parents.
No car. Doesn't drive.
No sex before marriage.
Wants bf to pay for everything.


Y'all may attack her for things she said in a previous post, but I'm just going by what I see in the OP.

That she may have her own problems does not preclude the response itself from having red flags.
 
Old 05-25-2016, 11:05 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Y'all may attack her for things she said in a previous post, but I'm just going by what I see in the OP.

That she may have her own problems does not preclude the response itself from having red flags.
Context always matters.
 
Old 05-25-2016, 11:07 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Y'all may attack her for things she said in a previous post, but I'm just going by what I see in the OP.

That she may have her own problems does not preclude the response itself from having red flags.
It doesn't, but since we don't know what the response was in response to, we have no idea if there are any red flags
 
Old 05-25-2016, 11:21 AM
 
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Red flags:

A) Generally poor sentence structure
Ha, his structure may be lazy, but it's comprehensible. The OP's generally isn't better, but it looks like for the time being, CD won't be assaulted with the "Him" issue.


With that said and knowing the OP's history, the guy has a lot of perception and is definitely a straight shooter. He also is able to clarify what he's looking for and it appear that he's telling you that you and he are not a fit. Now he would be a bright fellow if he moves on and finds another woman who would be a better fit.
 
Old 05-25-2016, 11:30 AM
 
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With that said and knowing the OP's history, the guy has a lot of perception and is definitely a straight shooter. He also is able to clarify what he's looking for and it appear that he's telling you that you and he are not a fit. Now he would be a bright fellow if he moves on and finds another woman who would be a better fit.
Don't you mean "him and you?"

(Sorry, just couldn't resist. )
 
Old 05-25-2016, 11:33 AM
 
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Don't you mean "him and you?"

(Sorry, just couldn't resist. )
LOL!

I did thought of writing down along the lines "him and her", but I'm being kind here
 
Old 05-25-2016, 01:49 PM
 
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Y'all may attack her for things she said in a previous post, but I'm just going by what I see in the OP.

That she may have her own problems does not preclude the response itself from having red flags.
His response was defensive, which is red flag, but it's not an attack to say the person was indeed right, even if he presented things badly.

She DOES need to bring something to the table. Everyone does.

"I won't sleep with you, but I will expect you to pay for everything and drive me around" is NOT a relationship, unless he's an impotent 98-year-old eccentric billionaire trying to make other men jealous and she's an unbelievably knock-down-dead gorgeous trophy.
 
Old 05-25-2016, 01:58 PM
 
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"I won't sleep with you, but I will expect you to pay for everything and drive me around" is NOT a relationship, unless he's an impotent 98-year-old eccentric billionaire trying to make other men jealous and she's an unbelievably knock-down-dead gorgeous trophy.
And last month at this time, she was trying to get her then-boyfriend to go to couple's counseling with her.
 
Old 05-30-2016, 10:04 AM
 
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I imagine her profile lists an awful lot of "I dont do/have", and very little if any of, "I do/have".
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