How do I tell a girl my feelings? Do you think she likes me? (London, like)

[wfc2965]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

Just asking out of pure curiosity which countries are we talking about with you and her?

The reason I'm asking are you hoping she comes to you or the other way?

I live in England and she lives in Germany

[Pitt Chick]

I stand corrected then, on the meeting part... but the rest still rings true.

Exchange students cry and hug when they leave their host family. Nothing out of the ordinary there.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by wfc2965

Both 16

Mate just noticed this.....

You'll go to a house party or college party and meet someone else and forget about her.

At your age it's pointless to fantasise about someone else so far away I thought you were able to go abroad and be with her but you have at least 5 years to realistically wait

[wfc2965]

Originally Posted by Pitt Chick

I stand corrected then, on the meeting part... but the rest still rings true.

Exchange students cry and hug when they leave their host family. Nothing out of the ordinary there.

I suppose you are right. I thought it may have been something different as it was quite out of the ordinary for someone like her.

[Cantabridgienne]

But...you barely know her? How would you know how she ordinarily says goodbye to people she will likely never see again?

[wfc2965]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

Mate just noticed this.....

You'll go to a house party or college party and meet someone else and forget about her.

At your age it's pointless to fantasise about someone else so far away I thought you were able to go abroad and be with her but you have at least 5 years to realistically wait

Maybe, but my fear is that she will put me off other people and that I might not be able to move forward if you see what I mean.

[Pitt Chick]

Originally Posted by wfc2965

Maybe, but my fear is that she will put me off other people and that I might not be able to move forward if you see what I mean.

Sounds like you already did that, all on your own.

[wfc2965]

Originally Posted by Cantabridgienne

But...you barely know her? How would you know how she ordinarily says goodbye to people she will likely never see again?

I knew her for about 3 weeks in total and I think in that time you can get a reasonably good idea of what she is like. She didn't really strike me as someone who would say goodbye like that but I can only assume and maybe you are right, who knows?

[wfc2965]

Originally Posted by Pitt Chick

Sounds like you already did that, all on your own.

Yeah you're right, but unless I know what she thinks then I'll keep on being like that unfortunately, I can't control what I feel about her right now.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by wfc2965

Maybe, but my fear is that she will put me off other people and that I might not be able to move forward if you see what I mean.

Mate I know exactly what you mean and I completely understand it

However I PROMISE as soon as you mingle with more and more girls even in a platonic sense and they like you back you will pass this stage which at your age as you are getting older you will meet lots , it's called puppy love what you are going through and LOL it's awful having such a deep crush at that age i know but we ALL did at your age so please please please trust me when I say it WILL pass