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Old 06-10-2016, 09:34 AM
 
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Can you not form relationships with women your own age? Please leave the underaged girls alone, thanks.
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Old 06-10-2016, 09:36 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Okay, if people think this is a bad idea, I don't have to go for it. Like I said, I've been keeping my options open by speaking to other people.

Not to get defensive or anything, but I don't think it's that big of a deal. She's only a few years younger, that's not icky and definitely won't be a bit further into the future. This isn't Lolita, people. This girl is just a simple crush from afar, I'm sure we've all been through a similar situation. I'm not building any wild fantasy in my head. It's not like I've been obsessing over this one girl for years.
Ok, I believe you. I still don't think this is a good idea, though.
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Old 06-10-2016, 09:39 AM
 
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Ok, I believe you. I still don't think this is a good idea, though.
Okay, I understand. If people think this isn't a good idea, I definitely won't go for it.
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Old 06-10-2016, 09:49 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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It isn't the same girl.
So why are you mooning over underage girls from your past (that you never even spoke to) instead of going out and meeting actual women your age?
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Old 06-10-2016, 09:55 AM
 
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Meet new people. In real life. You can start one million threads and the advice will be the same.
I have had people from my past contact me on FB and it was creepy. You wonder, why now?
Just don't do it. Meet new people.
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Old 06-10-2016, 09:56 AM
 
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Meet new people. In real life. You can start one million threads and the advice will be the same.
I have had people from my past contact me on FB and it was creepy. You wonder, why now?
Just don't do it. Meet new people.
I'd just assume they were heinously desperate.
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Old 06-10-2016, 10:04 AM
 
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For one, I'm not "mooning over underage girls from my past." This girl isn't that much younger (only around two years), and it's just sick to hear accusations along those lines. I'm also going out and meeting girls my age, but I'm not with anyone ATM.

Since everyone believes this is a bad idea, I won't do it. Like I said, I'm speaking to people I know right now in person, so it's not like I've been hung over this one girl in particular. If everyone believes I shouldn't do it and that social media isn't a good place to meet others (relationship-wise), I'll definitely take the advice.
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Old 06-10-2016, 10:33 AM
 
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I just realized this girl is 17 and the OP is older. Seems he got interested when she was a freshman and he was a senior. Ick.
You have some bizarre hang ups. 3-4 years is really not a huge age difference.
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Old 06-10-2016, 10:39 AM
 
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You have some bizarre hang ups. 3-4 years is really not a huge age difference.
Posts like this convince me that you not actually the mother of a young teen girl as you claim.
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Old 06-10-2016, 10:49 AM
 
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Posts like this convince me that you not actually the mother of a young teen girl as you claim.
I do. But I was also a teenager. I dated older guys. My high school boyfriend was four years older. Even now I date a guy that was in middle school when I graduated from high school. Age is only a number.
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