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First of all, she's 18 and I am 19. We've been talking about two months and I know she's interested in me, we've kissed and cuddled and I know she likes me a lot but we're not official yet.
She's very bipolar in the way she treats me, one day I will be sweet and she will be sweet back and we will talk throughout the day and everything is great...
But, another day she will leave all of my messages on read and ignore me the whole day and just hide.
I would go see her more often and set things up but she's having to watch her 5 year old nephew so we can only communicate long-distance currently.
Sometimes I think I try too hard and put most of the effort into this, so I figured I need to make a change.
So, she's obviously very interested in me but is bipolar in the way she treats me and is playing hard to get.
I decided it would be best to just stop trying if she's going to play that game and not send anything until she's done. I feel like if I stop she will wonder where I went then try to get after me.
But I don't know what to say when she comes back around
#1 I would stop calling her behavior "bipolar" unless you think she really has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. She's young and immature, and you aren't really dating. Keeping up any kind of relationship via text only is really difficult and sometimes just a PITA.
#2 I wouldn't back off just to see if she will come running. That's playing games. Decide if you like her, and if you do, whether you want to put in the actual work it will take to pursue her. If you do that and she still is hot and cold in her treatment of you, then let her go.
Honestly, though, as the mom of a 19-year-old myself, I would encourage you to look around and find a girl who is more available to you. Surely there are some around.
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