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I agree. What if she says she wants me to initiate more? I feel like I already do.
What if she says there's nothing wrong, or she doesn't realize how much time passed, or basically does not answer?
Then you're a fool for believing that!
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Originally Posted by cp3oh221
Ok, then I guess I will ask her if something is going on and see what she says and hopefully it is actually what is going on XC
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Originally Posted by melflower
If you really can't just ask her honestly then what kind of relationship do you have? It sounds like you guys aren't even friends or emotionally connected. Odd.
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There may be nothing wrong - from her perspective. Its a fundamental basic that women are not as sexually motivated (yes, there are exceptions - but on average) as men. Usually (not always) however much the female wants it, the male wants it several times more often.
Although men appreciate when their woman initiates, most of us weren't conditioned that way.
What could be wrong?? Most anything, or nothing. You wont know until you ask her.
If I may say so, your sex life sounds very lazy. I am thinking your passivity has turned her off.
I have been there before and when the respect goes, the passion drains out, and so does the sexual interest.
It's sad though that you don't feel that you can talk to her about it. How do you solve other issues in your relationship? You must talk about those, right?
Because you sir are a previously banned troll that apparently doesn't know what "go away" means.
Just fyi, we won't stop banning your new incarnations.
Closed.
Yac.
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