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Old 06-21-2016, 10:58 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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their spouses might have an issue with it. . my rule of thumb while married was don't do it if you don't feel comfortable telling your spouse
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Old 06-21-2016, 11:00 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Naked coffee isn't the norm? Huh....no wonder the break room clears out every time I start pouring coffee......

We've been LIED to!!!!

I bet that wasn't the cream either.

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Old 06-21-2016, 11:02 AM
 
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Yep. Unless the subject is her surprise birthday party or her Christmas gift, if you feel the need to keep a conversation from your spouse, it's a conversation you likely shouldn't be having.

A red flag is your spouse not being able to look at your phone. MrsCPG knows my password. She uses my iPhone all the time to look up stuff on Wikipedia or the dictionary when she's reading a book. So I guess that means she could look at my text messages or e-mails if she wanted. But if I started keeping it from her, that would tell her I was up to no good.
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Old 06-21-2016, 11:14 AM
 
Location: Chicago. Kind of.
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Why, exactly, is this any business of yours?
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Old 06-21-2016, 11:20 AM
 
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Why, exactly, is this any business of yours?
Well, you missed the invisible quotation marks around the word "friend" in the original post. Wink, wink. Nod, nod.
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Old 06-21-2016, 11:56 AM
 
Location: Chicago. Kind of.
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Well, you missed the invisible quotation marks around the word "friend" in the original post. Wink, wink. Nod, nod.





I HATE it when I do that...
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Old 06-21-2016, 02:04 PM
 
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Not your business, but sounds like it could lead to trouble....
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Old 06-21-2016, 06:57 PM
 
Location: Bordentown
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Sure, it's none of my business but she came to me for advice, which turned out to be a hypothetical situation. She lives here on the east coast and him on the west coast. They recently got in touch and we're messaging catching up. My friend was contemplating visiting him over there in California but said she doesn't want to ruin his marriage. I told her I agreed she shouldn't go. Then she said if he lived here, she would have met him for coffee but I think that one thing would lead to another.
Anyone here heard of Nancy Kalish?
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Old 06-23-2016, 12:09 AM
 
Location: Oregon, formerly Texas
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The way my dad would sometimes reminisce about his high school girlfriend, I'm pretty sure he was in love with her still after 50 years. It wouldn't have been smart for them to meet when they were 65, let alone 45.

I think it depends on the emotional attachment and attraction that could still exist from one or both parties.
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Old 06-23-2016, 07:30 AM
 
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Really not your business, OP.
He was just asking our opinions about whether we think it's bad or good. Nothing wrong with that!
I figure that it's never a good idea unless you've told your spouse about it and they're OK with it.
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