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Would these guys have met up with me if I sent it to them? I don't think so... it takes more effort to meet up with me and have real sex than to jerk off to my pics I guess.
So the ones that want the pic and are refusing to meet up even when you say something about the real thing are in a relationship. Collecting pics is a hobby for them. It's a way to experience the chase and get the sexual thrill without physically cheating.
I'll say this, if some girl I just met started sending me nude pics, I sure wouldn't think too highly of her as a person and certainly not someone I'd like to carry on a serious relationship with.
It would be just like some dude sending a girl he just met some dick pics.
Both classless and something typical narcissists would do.
The irony is, people who impulsively do things like this, in their twisted minds, think that it is 'empowering' and 'liberating.' Yet, the truth is, people lose respect for them.
I won't send naughty pics even to dudes I'm involved with. Possibly not even a spouse. Revenge porn is real, y'all. There are just too many opportunities for the pics to be shared or leaked inappropriately, and too much to lose as a result.
I don't know where perfect strangers get off thinking they're entitled to such private photos, but it wouldn't be a frequent "demand" if women weren't actually sending them the images they seek. If they just want naked pics (and more), they can get that from porn sites. I have too much respect for myself to reward boorish behavior with the details I share only with those I'm most intimate with.
I meet some guys online I find are attractive and I absolutely hate it when they do this. We'll talk a bit, then they'll ask for a naughty pic right away or send a d pix. I say no, let's just meet up, you won't be disappointed, but they make it clear that if I don't send a naughty pic they'll disappear. So I let them disappear. I don't trust strangers with those kind of pics. I even hooked up with this guy once and he knows what I look like naked but he kept pestering me about a naughty pic. When it was clear I just wasn't going to do it he disappeared. I don't get this. Is this a power thing? I ask them wouldn't the real thing be better? And they somehow want to keep this of me. I hooked up with another guy once and he kept asking if he could take a video. I said absolutely not. I yelled at him and we were supposed to meet up and he flaked out. I just don't feel comfortable letting someone keep naughty pics of me especially if i don't really know them. I can't trust them. But if they know I'll sleep with them why would they disappear if they can't get a stupid pic from me? Wtf?
The fact that you would even engage with people who demand a "naughty" pic from you right off the bat is concerning. It says you have few boundaries. Do you really want to go out with that type of guy, and if so, why????
The fact that you would even engage with people who demand a "naughty" pic from you right off the bat is concerning. It says you have few boundaries. Do you really want to go out with that type of guy, and if so, why????
OP, you have a broken picker. Throw it out and get you a new one!
The first time a guy demanded I take a naughty photo and send it to him, what was the beginning of what I believed to be a very promising partnering with a smart, witty, and charming guy came to an abrupt halt and that was the end of our connection. Similarly, when a guy online invited me to look at his webcam in a chat room and it turned out he was naked and doing that, I abruptly ended the conversation and exited the chat room too.
Nowadays, guys have no problem forwarding unsolicited photos of their members, apparently unaware that this is abusive behavior. I agree with the previous poster - you need to narrow your boundaries. You are not obligated to continue communicating with someone who crosses that line. Do you really think you'd like to spend time in person with someone whose already shoving his manhood in your face before you've even shaken hands? **shudder**
Omfg you people.. smh.. I HAVE stopped speaking to them . Wtf is up with this broken picker bs. How am I to know how someone will act until I speak with them Jesus Christ.
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