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Nope nope nope nope. We've been married 16 years and I still insist on condoms until he finally caves and gets snipped. My baby factory is closed and I have a bag of frozen peas in the freezer with his name on them.
I know how they are spread but realistically most stds are curable and the ones that aren't are fairly rare. I think I said this before. I also have never had an std. I mean I know it's bad and I have used condoms before but I just feel bad when guys do like they don't fully like me
I think it stems from what was mentioned earlier....... Some men will have women that they only want sex with on the sly, look at her as an object and so on, and are not particularly interested in her as a person.....
So in her mind the fact he's wants to use a condom and eliminate the possibility of getting more serious ( pregnant/std etc ) is a way of telling her that he's looking at her as I've mentioned above.....
To be honest i think it's just the bloke playing it safe and doesn't look down at her and she's well overthinking and worrying about nothing.
I think it stems from what was mentioned earlier....... Some men will have women that they only want sex with on the sly, look at her as an object and so on, and are not particularly interested in her as a person.....
So in her mind the fact he's wants to use a condom and eliminate the possibility of getting more serious ( pregnant/std etc ) is a way of telling her that he's looking at her as I've mentioned above.....
To be honest i think it's just the bloke playing it safe and doesn't look down at her and she's well overthinking and worrying about nothing.
And that my good sir...is called "trapping."
Using pregnancy to keep a someone is a big "no no."
I know how they are spread but realistically most stds are curable and the ones that aren't are fairly rare. I think I said this before. I also have never had an std. I mean I know it's bad and I have used condoms before but I just feel bad when guys do like they don't fully like me
You do realize that gonorrhea is well on its way to becoming completely drug resistant, right? It's the second most common reported infectious disease (the first is chlamydia) in the U.S. If you look at the statistics, there were more than 300,000 infections in 2013, which is a whole lot for something that is "fairly rare". The drug resistant version is already in many countries and if you come into contact with someone who has it, you're stuck with it. I'll go with a guy not fully liking me and asking to use a condom than having gonorrhea for life because I've picked up a drug resistant strain.
Using pregnancy to keep a someone is a big "no no."
I very much agree with your final statement.
I obviously completely agree my love but that's just one possible way of her looking at it I don't agree with it and certainly not trapping, It's a sad state of affairs either way as the trust is not there.
But if I'm honest I really hope I'm wrong and it's not the reason I've stated
I know how they are spread but realistically most stds are curable and the ones that aren't are fairly rare. I think I said this before. I also have never had an std. I mean I know it's bad and I have used condoms before but I just feel bad when guys do like they don't fully like me
The initial damage that chlamydia causes often goes unnoticed. However, chlamydia can lead to serious health problems.
If you are a woman, untreated chlamydia can spread to your uterus and fallopian tubes (tubes that carry fertilized eggs from the ovaries to the uterus), causing pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). PID often has no symptoms, however some women may have abdominal and pelvic pain. Even if it doesn’t cause symptoms initially, PID can cause permanent damage to your reproductive system and lead to long-term pelvic pain, inability to get pregnant, and potentially deadly ectopic pregnancy (pregnancy outside the uterus).
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