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Old 07-05-2016, 08:24 AM
 
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There's this girl that I really like. We've known each other for a few years. We hang out sometimes and she'll invite me over to her place. We'll sit and cuddle and watch tv. Yes, sometimes things get a little physical. Some making out and some very heavy petting. But we're officially not in a relationship. She'll call me ask ask if I want to come over and sometimes she'll ask me to stop by the store or McDonald's and bring her something.

The other day I asked her if I was to ask her out on an official date would she go out with me. This was her reply. She said that she would go out on a date but she wouldn't date me nor would she want to be in a relationship with me.

What kind of a reply was that and how should I take it? Back off from her or keep doing what I'm doing knowing it's not going anywhere?
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:28 AM
 
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Her reply was clear. She'd have a date with you, but she's not interested in dating you or having a relationship with you.

If you want to keep the status quo, do so, if you don't, then don't. It's that simple.

(LOL at "heavy petting")
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:29 AM
 
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Stop. Just stop.

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Old 07-05-2016, 08:32 AM
 
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Good grief you are old enough to be her father, and you are hooking up with her?

STOP
.
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:32 AM
 
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This is a different girl.
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:34 AM
 
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Is this what you *general you* call hooking up?

Seems to me she gave you her answer when you asked her if she wanted to go out on an official date.

So I would take a break from spending any time with her.

Do not answer the phone when she calls you.

Do not text her.

Do not reply to any of her texts.

Just wait and see what happens.

Why would you want to continue being in this situation knowing it will not go anywhere?
I don't!
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:35 AM
 
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This is a different girl.
I'll take fictional characters for a $1,000, Alex.
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:36 AM
 
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This is a different girl.
And her age is.... ?
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:38 AM
 
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I don't!
OK...

Then why did you mention it?
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:38 AM
 
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and her age is.... ?

35
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