Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 08-12-2016, 05:12 PM
 
19 posts, read 11,611 times
Reputation: 10

Advertisements

OK so if you were married or with someone for a long time ,
What would be worse..

Your mate has a long term affair with only one person , but falls in love with that person

or

A one night stand with some stranger and just had hot sex with ?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 08-12-2016, 05:15 PM
 
Location: Canada
11,840 posts, read 12,123,745 times
Reputation: 30640
No one is going to be in a situation of having to choose. Why even ask?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 08-12-2016, 05:20 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
26,713 posts, read 41,926,093 times
Reputation: 41474
Affair would be far worse. Anyone is capable of losing control for one night IMO.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 08-12-2016, 05:21 PM
 
Location: California
352 posts, read 235,169 times
Reputation: 320
Equal.......


Both are a divorce-dumping offense.


Zero trust thereafter......
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 08-12-2016, 05:30 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
15,675 posts, read 11,600,952 times
Reputation: 12549
Quote:
Originally Posted by karmachameleon View Post
OK so if you were married or with someone for a long time ,
What would be worse..

Your mate has a long term affair with only one person , but falls in love with that person

or

A one night stand with some stranger and just had hot sex with ?
In both cases it would be the same outcome...... Bye bye

So neither in truth, however I'd be much more pissed at the long term one has she would have been lying to me and taking me for a mug for a long period of time .... Which is awful really
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 08-12-2016, 05:38 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
16,959 posts, read 17,439,969 times
Reputation: 30264
It's like saying: what's worse, smoking cocaine or snorting it. Smh lol.

Either scenario, says you don't love and or give a crap about your partner.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 08-12-2016, 05:40 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
15,675 posts, read 11,600,952 times
Reputation: 12549
Quote:
Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut View Post
It's like saying: what's worse, smoking cocaine or snorting it. Smh lol.
In reality this
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 08-12-2016, 05:52 PM
 
19 posts, read 11,611 times
Reputation: 10
interesting answers people


How much worse would it be if it was with someone you both knew and your partner hated?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 08-12-2016, 05:54 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
41,936 posts, read 37,191,467 times
Reputation: 40641
Quote:
Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut View Post
It's like saying: what's worse, smoking cocaine or snorting it. Smh lol.

Either scenario, says you don't love and or give a crap about your partner.

Smoking, far more addictive and expensive (goes really fast once cooked down).


But I'd say the affair. Lets hope I never find out.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 08-12-2016, 05:57 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
22,779 posts, read 48,070,391 times
Reputation: 49021
Quote:
Originally Posted by karmachameleon View Post
love affair or one night stand ,Whats more acceptable?
Neither is better... they both damage the relationship.


Trying to justify your behavior, OP?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 02:15 AM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top