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Old 08-05-2016, 08:15 AM
 
Location: The South
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My husband stays logged in on my Facebook. He stays on it more than I do! I told him to just get his own, but he says, nah...why do that when I have yours!
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Old 08-05-2016, 08:18 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Okay...is he that interested in your friends? Just nosy? Jealousy problem?
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Old 08-05-2016, 08:22 AM
 
Location: The South
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Probably all the above! I kinda feel like I don't have any privacy. Before this, he used to sneak my phone and go through my internet history to see what I was reading etc.
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Old 08-05-2016, 08:35 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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My husband stays logged in on my Facebook. He stays on it more than I do! I told him to just get his own, but he says, nah...why do that when I have yours!
Change your password my love

Has he got anything that he doesn't like you playing with or looking at? ...... I'd go and play football with it
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Old 08-05-2016, 08:35 AM
 
Location: My House
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Probably all the above! I kinda feel like I don't have any privacy. Before this, he used to sneak my phone and go through my internet history to see what I was reading etc.
Was this before or after you two got married?

Because, I would not marry someone who was so disrespectful of my privacy.

Ever.
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Old 08-05-2016, 08:48 AM
 
Location: The South
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He said that I would have to get rid of my Facebook or allow him to stay logged on to it. I'm alot more social than he is, so I chose the latter. He wasn't like this when we were dating. He just started this out of mistrust, I guess. We have had rough patches in our marriage, periods of separation, so I guess in his mind this is security for him
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Old 08-05-2016, 08:52 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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He said that I would have to get rid of my Facebook or allow him to stay logged on to it. I'm alot more social than he is, so I chose the latter. He wasn't like this when we were dating. He just started this out of mistrust, I guess. We have had rough patches in our marriage, periods of separation, so I guess in his mind this is security for him
How have you told him that you're unhappy about this? Has he seen it upsets you?

Either way it's pure selfish and controlling on his part and I'm sorry you're going through this
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Old 08-05-2016, 08:58 AM
 
Location: The South
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I've made comments that I about how much he stays on it, but then he would say things like...well I just want get on anymore, but he's lying. If I told him wanted him to log off, he would think I was up to something.

Ive been offered another job and traveling will be a part of that. He was talking about coming with me etc. He said how much he would miss me. I'm kinda feeling a little smothered. The older I get, the less male attention I want or need.
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Old 08-05-2016, 09:03 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I've made comments that I about how much he stays on it, but then he would say things like...well I just want get on anymore, but he's lying. If I told him wanted him to log off, he would think I was up to something.

Ive been offered another job and traveling will be a part of that. He was talking about coming with me etc. He said how much he would miss me. I'm kinda feeling a little smothered. The older I get, the less male attention I want or need.
Maybe that's why then..

It sounds daft I know but it might be his backward way of showing you he cares and probably thinking the worst as you won't be working around the corner as such

But either way it's childish of him in my mind and of course you know my opinion on trust...
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Old 08-05-2016, 09:07 AM
 
Location: State of Denial
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Dump Facebook. Make a Twitter account lol.
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