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Old 09-05-2016, 08:07 PM
 
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Anyways, we were recently at a company event and we went out 3 out of the 4 nights and the touch barrier was pretty much "nonexistent". For example, I always place my hand on her lower back and she never moved nor seemed opposed to me touching her there. So during these event's her and I would eventually go out to dance and whatnot.

Where I am confused is that when her and I spoke she never mentioned her bf directly to me but only when she was around with other attendees. What is this all about?
Geez, for a guy who is make some pretty direct moves, I can't believe you don't understand this.

When ppl cheat, they usually like to leave no clues. And she is not interested in breaking up with her bf right now, but she is willing to privately explore her options.

Attractive women tend to monkey branch from bf to bf cuz it makes the drama and emotional pain easier to deal with. For example, take a look at Taylor Swift's break up with Calvin Harris.

Dive in bro. She's either going to open the door and let you in, or reject you, especially if you don't set it up right.
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Old 09-05-2016, 08:13 PM
 
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Okay guys,
So at my last job there is this girl I'm really attracted to but there is one big problem; she has a boyfriend. So this is where things get interesting. I remember speaking with her for a few minutes during a company event and slightly hitting on her but it didn't turn into anything more. Anyways, we were recently at a company event and we went out 3 out of the 4 nights and the touch barrier was pretty much "nonexistent". For example, I always place my hand on her lower back and she never moved nor seemed opposed to me touching her there. So during these event's her and I would eventually go out to dance and whatnot.
Where I am confused is that when her and I spoke she never mentioned her bf directly to me but only when she was around with other attendees. What is this all about?
Why are you touching a woman that you know has a boyfriend?
Why are you touching someone you work with?
There should be no confusion on your part at all, she has a boyfriend and you work with her so leave her
alone and prevent a sexual harrassment complaint all at the same time.
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Old 09-05-2016, 08:16 PM
 
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Wasn't there a thread asking this very question a couple days ago? Deja moo.
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Old 09-05-2016, 09:05 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Well, for one thing, it's "she and I" not "her and I".
For another, she has a bf.
And from now on, the attendees are calling you Mr. Hands behind your back. Shhh ... don't them them I told you.
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Old 09-05-2016, 10:20 PM
 
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She likes the attention and fawning. She isn't stopping you because she figures you're harmless.
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Old 09-05-2016, 10:33 PM
 
Location: Dallas Texas
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She's untouchable, when she's single then you can worry about it.
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Old 09-05-2016, 10:59 PM
 
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She likes the attention and fawning. She isn't stopping you because she figures you're harmless.
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