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I'm currently chatting on okCupid with a girl I messaged yesterday. I'll call her flower, that's her screen name. I was a bit reluctant to message her because she has a 2 year old, that's a little scary. She's 32 years old and is an office manager so I'm thinking she might be looking for a sugar daddy. But in our messages so far she seems really sweet. This one is going to have to be handled with care as I'm not into hurting a single mother by misleading her. She's very cute.
Anyone want to weigh in on this one? Should I move on or see where it goes? Advice would be appreciated.
Are you fine with being a father figure to kids, and all the responsibilities that entails, if things work out long term with her.
I'm currently chatting on okCupid with a girl I messaged yesterday. I'll call her flower, that's her screen name. I was a bit reluctant to message her because she has a 2 year old, that's a little scary. She's 32 years old and is an office manager so I'm thinking she might be looking for a sugar daddy. But in our messages so far she seems really sweet. This one is going to have to be handled with care as I'm not into hurting a single mother by misleading her. She's very cute.
Anyone want to weigh in on this one? Should I move on or see where it goes? Advice would be appreciated.
Why would you automatically think she's only after a sugar daddy?... If the messaging is going well then judge her on that mate
Yes with any lady you should be honest but a single mother you most certainly should be, whenever there's a kid involved you HAVE to be above board as neither of them should feel cheated. ( not at all saying you would or could do that but in general mate )
If it goes somewhere would you be ok with helping to raise her kid?... Your answer depends on whether or not you proceed or not
My advice is if you have to think over if you should go out with someone, then that someone isn't right. I made that mistake plenty of times. When it comes to dating, let the heart lead and the brain reflect. Don't let the brain lead and the heart reflect.
And I haven't had any arguments with the Vegan. We've shared some lively discussion over Skype, but nothing that resembles an argument. Perhaps you're thinking of L. L was the one that texted me out of the blue after 3 weeks of silence and then basically ghosted me. I told her I prefer zero communication as opposed to intermittent, meaningless communication. She responded with "noted" and that's the last I've heard from her.
No, I was thinking of the Vegan, but what came across as arguments to some of us, you're defining as lively discussion. So, whatever. Anyway, at least you're checking out some new prospects. It sounds like you're having fun with this new-fangled Tinder toy.
But I did message one of the women I was matched with on Tinder because I found her very attractive and she's a nurse, which I think is cool. I've never dated a nurse before.
Never **** off your mailman, don't buy shoes that are too tight and never marry a nurse.
She's 32 years old and is an office manager so I'm thinking she might be looking for a sugar daddy. But in our messages so far she seems really sweet. This one is going to have to be handled with care as I'm not into hurting a single mother by misleading her. She's very cute.
Advice: See where it goes with V, and then decide. Don't you have a date coming up? What if you start connecting with the nurse, do you still go on the other date? Do you date both at once? That's not handling anything with "care" IMO.
Also, if 6 years younger than you is the oldest you've ever been interested in, meaning you only go for younger women, you may be more apt to question if you're getting sugar babies.
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