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Old 09-13-2016, 11:17 AM
 
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It could be or she's just glad for the online company ( meaning anyone ).

Are you seriously considering meeting her for a date?
We she was suggesting we meet for breakfast a while back. But I am not sure if we met would she get flirty with me because like I said whenever I emailed her she would reply back right away and with a smiley
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Old 09-13-2016, 11:19 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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We she was suggesting we meet for breakfast a while back. But I am not sure if we met would she get flirty with me because like I said whenever I emailed her she would reply back right away and with a smiley
Breakfast is not a sexy date meal, generally. Replying back immediately means she's probably bored, and smileys are just lighthearted punctuation.
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Old 09-13-2016, 11:25 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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We she was suggesting we meet for breakfast a while back. But I am not sure if we met would she get flirty with me because like I said whenever I emailed her she would reply back right away and with a smiley
We had a story just like this last year EXACTLY like this..... Not well husband, emails, smileys, old co worker, meeting for coffee...... Hmmmmmmm

The same advice on that thread still applies ... DONT PURSUE.

Forget the smileys! .... ❤️💋💕💘💚💛😻😍....... And Im still not interested in dating you mate! LOL

No seriously mate it's not worth it
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Old 09-13-2016, 11:26 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Breakfast is not a sexy date meal, generally. Replying back immediately means she's probably bored, and smileys are just lighthearted punctuation.
Seriously.

Why on earth would anyone think that adding a smiley means they are hot for you??



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Old 09-13-2016, 11:43 AM
 
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Breakfast is not a sexy date meal, generally. Replying back immediately means she's probably bored, and smileys are just lighthearted punctuation.
Depends. The key phrase was "I've been thinking of you a lot lately." Every time I ever heard a woman say that in my single life, there was a very specific thing she was thinking about. So her smileys might be code for "Let's play airship. You be the dirigible and I'll be the hangar."
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Old 09-13-2016, 11:56 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Depends. The key phrase was "I've been thinking of you a lot lately." Every time I ever heard a woman say that in my single life, there was a very specific thing she was thinking about. So her smileys might be code for "Let's play airship. You be the dirigible and I'll be the hangar."
Maybe, but I'm sure you've had the experience where something reminds you of someone, and lo, a few days later they call/text/email and you say, "I was just thinking about you!" Perfectly innocent.

Just based on the OP's lack of self-awareness, I sincerely doubt that this married woman with an ill husband was just biding her time to use her ex-work pal as a boytoy. Now I'm wondering if there's an age difference between the two, and if it's likely she sees him as a nice kid, not a prospect.
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Old 09-14-2016, 04:49 AM
 
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You should send a dic pic.

That will let you know exactly where you stand.
It's better to wait until your face to face. So you can disappoint her in person.
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Old 09-14-2016, 09:06 AM
 
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The advice you got last year still stands.
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Old 09-14-2016, 09:13 AM
 
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I wouldn't be messing with a woman who may or may not be messing around on her man.

It's a complete turn off unless all you honestly value from her is a vagina willing to accommodate your penis.

...if that's the case you really have nothing to lose by telling her what you want, just a bunch of mind games and chemical highs from flirtation.
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Old 09-14-2016, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Eugene, Oregon
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Maybe there's several guys like you that she's recruiting for supplemental services that she's not able to get at home? She might be a Pony Express Rider (PER) who rides one mount to exhaustion and then hops onto the next. If one of them got injured, they usually shot them and put them out for the coyotes.
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