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Old 09-29-2016, 07:16 AM
 
Location: South-Western New Jersey
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Yesterday was a close friends birthday. She had to work until midnight and I agreed to go out to dinner and celebrated her birthday with her. Unfortunately she did not get home until 2 am and asked if I could come over and spend some time with her. I agreed to and we decided to put on some Netflix and watch a TV series. I put my arm around her and thought nothing of it, until she enclosed her hand in mine and rested her head on my shoulder. In the past I asked if she had feelings and she said no. She has always said I'm a romantic guy and her boyfriend is nothing like the way I am, as well as the fact that she has a kid and it's a messy situation. I would like some feedback if possible, could she be interested or was this all just friendly cuddling and nothing more?

She also mentioned she trusts me with her life and asks for back massages and enjoys them. Thank you!
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Old 09-29-2016, 07:21 AM
 
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She has a boyfriend.

Step away.
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Old 09-29-2016, 07:21 AM
 
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You went over at 2am to watch Netflix and just cuddled?

WTF am I missing?
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Old 09-29-2016, 07:23 AM
 
Location: South-Western New Jersey
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She has a boyfriend.

Step away.
I know that I'm not trying to get involved in anything. I made that clear the last couple of times I've been there.
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Old 09-29-2016, 07:24 AM
 
Location: South-Western New Jersey
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You went over at 2am to watch Netflix and just cuddled?

WTF am I missing?
I'm not a booty call type of guy hahaha. And she got done work at 1:30
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Old 09-29-2016, 07:25 AM
 
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I don't understand this scenario at all. Are you trying to get into her pants? She is in a relationship with the father of her child. Where was he by the way? And why wouldn't she just come home from work and go to bed? I assume she has to care for and be responsible for that child during the day.
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Old 09-29-2016, 07:25 AM
 
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I know that I'm not trying to get involved in anything. I made that clear the last couple of times I've been there.
Then it would would be a good idea not to go over to her place at 2AM. The last thing you should worry about is if she's interested or not.

You'd be smart to keep your distance.
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Old 09-29-2016, 07:27 AM
 
Location: South-Western New Jersey
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I don't understand this scenario at all. Are you trying to get into her pants? She is in a relationship with the father of her child. Where was he by the way?
Like I said it's a messy situation. The father is at his parents because she moved out. They share custody and are in the midst of a lawsuit with his parents. I'm not trying to do anything. I was only spending time with a friend since she's had it rough. Things changed quite quickly.
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Old 09-29-2016, 07:29 AM
 
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Then it would would be a good idea not to go over to her place at 2AM. The last thing you should worry about is if she's interested or not.

You'd be smart to keep your distance.
Hence why I've been quite skeptical when asked to hang out. Then again, why would you ask me to hang out so much? I'm just cinfused and don't like the scenario I'm getting drawn into.
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Old 09-29-2016, 07:29 AM
 
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Do you put your arm around your other friends while watching movies at 2 am??
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