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Old 10-06-2016, 11:02 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Originally Posted by ratherbcrazycatlady View Post
Ok! I'm not entitled to my own opinion, and guys always encourage a girl by responding to her, because he they think she's "creepy AF" as you put it. Thanks for the correction, it's a whole new way of looking at things for me, after years of being logical
Well, it could be to his benefit to keep a woman who'll probably be at least good for [bleep] on the hook if the new chick doesn't work out (or even if she does work out.) He might think she's nuts or creepy or whatever, but he's not going to turn down a woman who's offering herself on a platter.

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Old 10-06-2016, 11:04 AM
 
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Well, it could be to his benefit to keep a woman who'll probably be at least good for [bleep] on the hook if the new chick doesn't work out (or even if she does work out.)
I got that part, I think LOD did too, I'm just disagreeing that he thought she was "creepy AF".

ETA: You just added that he might think she's nuts or creepy. If that's what men do, is get with women they think are creepy, then yes I have been wrong in assuming that wasn't true.

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Old 10-06-2016, 11:13 AM
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Sounds like someone who's not that interested and just looking for a short texting buddy. Props to you for having the guts to do what you did.
Oh yea. That's common for guys. Guys love getting into text convos with girls they aren't interested in. Probably just looking for a pen pal.


Uh huh.
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Old 10-06-2016, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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If that's what men do, is get with women they think are creepy, then yes I have been wrong in assuming that wasn't true.
I absolutely don't think that's what men do in general, but there are enough guys out there with "well, she was nuts, but the sex was awesome!!!" stories that shows that some of them aren't going to turn down sex when it's offered (especially when the woman's been very forward.)
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Old 10-06-2016, 11:28 AM
 
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Creepy AF.

Pee? Worshiping him? A pic of another card? WTF. Shudder.
My thoughts exactly.
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Old 10-06-2016, 11:33 AM
 
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I absolutely don't think that's what men do in general, but there are enough guys out there with "well, she was nuts, but the sex was awesome!!!" stories that shows that some of them aren't going to turn down sex when it's offered (especially when the woman's been very forward.)
Yes, I've heard, sex is awesome with crazy women. I think we're disagreeing on "creepy" women though, maybe they'll look back and think they had too much to drink and the woman in question said or did something, or UP CLOSE became "creepy".

I don't imagine a guy thinking: "Aha! Quite creepy, I think I'll send her a text, cuz I like em creepy!" One usually doesn't respond to creeps by text and flirty messages.

But I'm not a man...and it looks like there may be some truth to that, after-all
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Old 10-06-2016, 11:38 AM
 
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He's interested in "something"
He would have never bothered to contact or converse with you otherwise.
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Old 10-06-2016, 11:46 AM
 
Location: Manchester, UK
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Good on you for doing it! Ignore the haters.
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Old 10-06-2016, 11:52 AM
 
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I got that part, I think LOD did too, I'm just disagreeing that he thought she was "creepy AF".

ETA: You just added that he might think she's nuts or creepy. If that's what men do, is get with women they think are creepy, then yes I have been wrong in assuming that wasn't true.
If a woman is throwing herself at them yes men definitely do that and that includes some disgusting men that are taken even. Being creepy doesn't really matter it's not considered a disqualifier for some if they just want easy action.
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Old 10-06-2016, 12:08 PM
 
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If a woman is throwing herself at them yes men definitely do that and that includes some disgusting men that are taken even. Being creepy doesn't really matter it's not considered a disqualifier for some if they just want easy action.
Well, considering the OP realizes this is why she is single and yet continues this practice, I'm guessing that's exactly what she wants (not to mention what she couldn't post on CD). *shrugs*
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