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Old 10-14-2016, 02:59 PM
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A question for the guys. Is it better to chase women, or make them chase you?

Old 10-14-2016, 03:01 PM
Location: NNJ
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At least from my observation, most women don't want to chase you. You cannot make them.

I think women should take more of an initiative... but it is what it is.
Old 10-14-2016, 03:04 PM
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Chase is a game for children, not adults. So if you're past the age of 12, don't play stupid games like that at all. A whole lot of relationship problems could be avoided if people would just be adults.
Old 10-14-2016, 03:09 PM
Location: Wichita Falls Texas
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I have to chase them now...damn 50!!!
Old 10-14-2016, 03:22 PM
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there aren't very many guys who can get women to pursue them. Large majority of the time the man has to do all the pursuing. That's how the game is played.
Old 10-14-2016, 03:35 PM
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I don't like to look at it as "chasing" or pursuing, more like needing to be proactive.
There are so many times guys are reluctant to make the first move. Think of all the missed opportunities!
Old 10-14-2016, 03:42 PM
Location: Jupiter
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I embrace the role of the initiator. A woman chasing me would not only make her look desperate but I wouldn't be interested in a woman who does so. Let me be a man
Old 10-14-2016, 03:58 PM
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by daddytwoshoes View Post
A question for the guys. Is it better to chase women, or make them chase you?
Depends. I will say while I'm not opposed to being chased, but when women have tried to chase me, there was a reason I didn't want to be caught by them in particular.
Old 10-14-2016, 04:07 PM
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We won't chase you, but you may as well run and at least give us the view from behind.
Old 10-14-2016, 04:08 PM
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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None of the above
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