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Old 11-06-2016, 08:17 PM
 
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So I've been on six dates now with this girl over the past three weeks, and I really like her. We've gone to dinner, watched sporting events at a bar, had movie night at my place, and have gone to a few hockey games (she loves hockey). We haven't slept together yet, but each date has ended with some good night kissing, and there's been a lot of holding/snuggling on each date.

We are getting together again next Friday, and this will be date number seven and about the one month mark since we first met in person (we texted back and forth for a month prior) while I was in the process of relocating to our city for my job. I really want to let her know that I like her a lot, and that right now, I don't want to date anyone else except for her. Is it still a bit too soon for that or should I just be upfront and honest with her?
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Old 11-06-2016, 08:32 PM
 
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Just tell her how you feel, and how she feels about exclusivity. Seems that you've gone from casual dating to steady dating. If she's not dating any other guy(s), ask how she feels about commitment.
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Old 11-06-2016, 08:34 PM
 
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Upfront and honest sounds like a great plan!
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Old 11-06-2016, 08:42 PM
 
Location: US
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no let her ask you, after/if you sleep with her she'll ask if you likes you
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Old 11-06-2016, 08:50 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Go for it!
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Old 11-07-2016, 07:26 AM
 
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I say go for it.
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Old 11-07-2016, 07:30 AM
 
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It is not too early to talk about being exclusive. Be up front and honest. If that is not what she wants, she will let you know and you can decide what is best for you. Being exclusive after several dates is the best way way to get to know each other.
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Old 11-07-2016, 07:41 AM
 
Location: California
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three weeks
I'd hold off a bit. 3 weeks is too soon IMO.

If, in fact she wants to be exclusive as well.....I'm positive she'll still be hanging out with you over the course of the near future.
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Old 11-07-2016, 11:35 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Do it!
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Old 11-07-2016, 05:53 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Just be honest! If you guys are having a great time together, there's really no harm in asking. And if she says it's too soon, then just keep going the way you are until she's ready or you want to move on. But honestly, it sounds like she likes you too, so I agree with people here: go for it.
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