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Old 11-16-2016, 06:13 PM
 
Location: NYC
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It's probably not a good idea to be posting full names and emails here.
good call but she already closed this one down a month ago so it won't matter, I''l edit the names though.
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Old 11-16-2016, 07:00 PM
 
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C'mon guy...time to buck up...stop thinking about her 24/7 & move on.
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Old 11-16-2016, 07:05 PM
 
Location: NYC
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C'mon guy...time to buck up...stop thinking about her 24/7 & move on.
bro she reached out to me on a new email account, I ignored the 1st 3 but then I caved. Don't get me wrong, I speak to other women but I need someone I can spend time with so we could enjoy each other.
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Old 11-16-2016, 08:49 PM
 
Location: West Coast - Best Coast!
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I don't know the history here, but I'd dismiss you reeeeeal quick if you ever talked to me as you did to her in those emails. Or if you demanded I contact you every 3-4 hours to tell you what I'm doing. You have major control and trust issues; if you can't trust someone you should break up with them, not expect them to be OK with you holding them ransom to demands that will never go away.
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Old 11-17-2016, 12:01 AM
 
Location: NYC
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I don't know the history here, but I'd dismiss you reeeeeal quick if you ever talked to me as you did to her in those emails. Or if you demanded I contact you every 3-4 hours to tell you what I'm doing. You have major control and trust issues; if you can't trust someone you should break up with them, not expect them to be OK with you holding them ransom to demands that will never go away.
I doubt you would dear, you would love me. If we both made an agreement to check in to see how we are doing and you decide to go mia the whole day we would have issues. As far as exes being in the picture that is a major red flag unless you're cool with your man seeing his ex like it's peachy clean.
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Old 11-17-2016, 10:49 AM
 
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I doubt you would dear, you would love me. If we both made an agreement to check in to see how we are doing and you decide to go mia the whole day we would have issues. As far as exes being in the picture that is a major red flag unless you're cool with your man seeing his ex like it's peachy clean.
Your behavior is controlling and abusive.
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Old 11-17-2016, 11:08 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I doubt you would dear, you would love me. If we both made an agreement to check in to see how we are doing and you decide to go mia the whole day we would have issues. As far as exes being in the picture that is a major red flag unless you're cool with your man seeing his ex like it's peachy clean.
Of course I would be. Well, my lady, since that's how I roll. Loads of people stay friends with people they dated. Heck, I wouldn't want to date someone I wouldn't likely be friends with.
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Old 11-17-2016, 01:28 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Of course I would be. Well, my lady, since that's how I roll. Loads of people stay friends with people they dated. Heck, I wouldn't want to date someone I wouldn't likely be friends with.
Your cool with your girl seeing another man she has been in a 3 year relationship with? Bro exes don't always move on and that is not good for them to spending time than you and her. I totally disagree with you and If I'm exclusively dating a woman, I would never do such thing and I will ask for the same respect in return.
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Old 11-17-2016, 02:25 PM
 
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Your cool with your girl seeing another man she has been in a 3 year relationship with? Bro exes don't always move on and that is not good for them to spending time than you and her. I totally disagree with you and If I'm exclusively dating a woman, I would never do such thing and I will ask for the same respect in return.
Nothing wrong with not feeling comfortable with your partner hanging out with exes and letting her know that you feel uncomfortable with that. The controlling and dysfunctional part comes when you need to force your views on her and start keeping tabs on her.
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Old 11-17-2016, 03:52 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Nothing wrong with not feeling comfortable with your partner hanging out with exes and letting her know that you feel uncomfortable with that. The controlling and dysfunctional part comes when you need to force your views on her and start keeping tabs on her.
She has done the same bro, it was an agreement which I stated before. This woman would turn cold as ice just off of me glancing at another woman(not me checking them out but just the mere eye contact with them). I never flirted or went out with another woman, I would never do that while with someone. I try to show my love and care through my actions and morals.
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