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im with my partner almost three years , we have a terrific relationship and welcomed a son into the world three months ago , he is everything we wanted and more and has enriched our lives no end
however , i have only ever wanted one child , when we started going out back in the day , i told my partner i could not look any further ahead than one child , we have not discussed this issue since and even after my partner got pregnant , i never raised it , im wondering is it too soon to bring it up or even when i eventually bring it up , how i should explain how i feel , i dont want to simply demand we dont have any more kids but im absolutely certain i dont
apart from being content with one , i dont believe we can afford another one , my partner is very reliant on my financially so im half thinking of stressing this point , i.e , we cant afford more kids and im the one who carries the family financially for the most part
however , i have only ever wanted one child , when we started going out back in the day , i told my partner i could not look any further ahead than one child ,
Why would you say that instead of "I only ever want one child". You weren't completely honest then, and if you had been, you wouldn't be in this predicament now.
Why won't people just be up-front and honest with what they want?
If not, then I'm guessing you won't have to debate this issue for long.
This. Just take her somewhere nice, have a glass of wine, relax, and bring it up in the course of conversation. Not as a big damned deal. But rather as a "as we map out our future together" kind of discussion.
Then if she agrees with you, schedule an appointment with a urologist forthwith. Because it's really up to you.
This sounds like a conversation with your partner. This is a deeply personal thing between the two of you. Not really something a bunch of internet strangers can help you with here.
With a three-month-old infant, his partner's barely been cleared to have sex again, let alone be thinking about another pregnancy.
My sister and I are 12 months apart. It is not too soon to have this conversation and OP you should be having it ASAP.
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