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Old 11-16-2016, 10:24 AM
 
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I'm not reading any other threads or delving further into whatever drama is going on here..

That being said, there are plenty of ways to please a man in the meantime.

Also, giving him leftover Chinese from a plate you already ate off is kinda tacky..lol
She was dead tired! Are you one of her bf's friends, or something? And HELLO, she was driving! She had to eat first--they couldn't eat together, because somebody had to drive! WTH?!
It didn't matter anyway, because he didn't even believe her, let alone thank her. I hope she pulled over to a gas station and threw it away, since he was being a jerk about it.
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Old 11-16-2016, 11:13 AM
 
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I'm not reading any other threads or delving further into whatever drama is going on here..

That being said, there are plenty of ways to please a man in the meantime.

Also, giving him leftover Chinese from a plate you already ate off is kinda tacky..lol
You are OK with pleasing a man in other ways when he has been treating you the way the OP was treated?
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Old 11-16-2016, 11:15 AM
 
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You are OK with pleasing a man in other ways when he has been treating you the way the OP was treated?
Ba-da bing, ba-da BOOM!
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Old 11-16-2016, 11:21 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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She was dead tired! Are you one of her bf's friends, or something? And HELLO, she was driving! She had to eat first--they couldn't eat together, because somebody had to drive! WTH?!
It didn't matter anyway, because he didn't even believe her, let alone thank her. I hope she pulled over to a gas station and threw it away, since he was being a jerk about it.
Slow your roll, Ruth lol.

My disclaimer clearly stated I was addressing the issues of this thread only.

* I would not be with a man I did not wish to please, and vice versa. . That may just be the reality of her situation: 2 wrongs don't make a right.
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Old 11-16-2016, 11:29 AM
 
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You are OK with pleasing a man in other ways when he has been treating you the way the OP was treated?
I don't have the time or interest to go get emotionally involved in the OP's entire post history..

Yall have at it tho!
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Old 11-16-2016, 11:31 AM
 
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Slow your roll, Ruth lol.

My disclaimer clearly stated I was addressing the issues of this thread only.

* I would not be with a man I did not wish to please, and vice versa. . That may just be the reality of her situation: 2 wrongs don't make a right.
Did you read even her OP? The parts where he abuses her emotionally and then "expects" her to satisfy him sexually?
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Old 11-16-2016, 11:37 AM
 
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I took him to work
...
such as shop for the house and go to an interview
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I'm very tired.
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I'm just so upset
So you aren't working and he is, and you're out shopping after dropping your kids off at grandma's and buying Chinese food which you ate without him, and now you're tired?
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Old 11-16-2016, 11:52 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Did you read even her OP? The parts where he abuses her emotionally and then "expects" her to satisfy him sexually?
Plus the biggie that she's got a UTI, which is super uncomfortable and precludes sexytimes for a while.
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Old 11-16-2016, 12:01 PM
 
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Did you read even her OP? The parts where he abuses her emotionally and then "expects" her to satisfy him sexually?
Her "Original" original post?! No, I read this one.

You suggested she put her kids up for adoption, lol. If that's "good" advice, then perhaps all her other threads should be merged into one big hot mess so we all can see what's what.

~ Because that is difference between what appears to be simply a "bad day" vs a bad life.
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Old 11-16-2016, 12:18 PM
 
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Her "Original" original post?! No, I read this one.

You suggested she put her kids up for adoption, lol. If that's "good" advice, then perhaps all her other threads should be merged into one big hot mess so we all can see what's what.

~ Because that is difference between what appears to be simply a "bad day" vs a bad life.
OP as in the original post of this thread.

It sounds as if you are OK in "pleasing a man in other ways" who treats you the way she was being treated by him in the OP... even if it was a bad day (even though no one suddenly starts treating his partner this way simply because of a bad day).
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