My girlfriend and my best friend are getting too close for my comfort?? (dating, boyfriend)
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I have a problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they don't have nothing right now but they are to close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts because they think I'm the bad guy..it just that it hurts to me to see them so close and I know they will fall in love in the future...my girlfriend and I still 100% in love we have being dating for five months and is great...but my best friend is really annoying me because he keeps getting close to her...and sometimes my girlfriend turns cold to me...i always see them laughing and happy...i love my girlfriend but I thinks every day the love she feels for me turns to my bf...what should I do?
I have a problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they don't have nothing right now but they are to close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts because they think I'm the bad guy..it just that it hurts to me to see them so close and I know they will fall in love in the future...my girlfriend and I still 100% in love we have being dating for five months and is great...but my best friend is really annoying me because he keeps getting close to her...and sometimes my girlfriend turns cold to me...i always see them laughing and happy...i love my girlfriend but I thinks every day the love she feels for me turns to my bf...what should I do?
Quit being a jealous and possessive boyfriend, for one. Take it from a formerly jealous person...being jealous does NOTHING. People will cheat regardless of your feelings, so you may as well not get yourself involved and make the situation worse by earning her resentment. If she cheats on you then you know what kind of person she and your best friend are. So leave it alone.
Well, this is a really annoying situation, but I suggest you consider this: for how long have you been friends with this guy and what drove you to keep this friendship? Maybe you should trust him, he is your friend and would not hurt you. Don't get low. You're so much better than this. Don't show up any resentment. You're a man of your own, strong, interesting and shouldn't compare yourself to anyone else. As for your girlfriend, you just talk to her and see if you two are really connected and if what you both have is special and unique no matter how many other friends she makes (your bro included). Don't be the jealous and insecure one. Even if nothing grows between them, there will always be your pride at stake. Don't feel ashamed of yourself.
If she doesn't pass your connection-test, if the other guy seems to be more important, maybe you should give her time to decide what's best. But don't stay in waiting. Move on if her behavior is silly and intended to make you wonder how great your fried is compared to yourself in her eyes.
I hope for the best!
I have a problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they don't have nothing right now but they are to close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts because they think I'm the bad guy..it just that it hurts to me to see them so close and I know they will fall in love in the future...my girlfriend and I still 100% in love we have being dating for five months and is great...but my best friend is really annoying me because he keeps getting close to her...and sometimes my girlfriend turns cold to me...i always see them laughing and happy...i love my girlfriend but I thinks every day the love she feels for me turns to my bf...what should I do?
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I know its hard but try to ignore it,it may be nothing......... I would hope your BEST FRIEND wouldnt do anything like that..
Tell your best friend to know his place or you will put him there. None of my friends would ever dare to disrespect me like that. NONE. Tell your girl to get lost too if she keeps it up.
You need to only hang out with one of them at a time if they rather spend time with each other than you when 3 of you are together. May be both of them aren't as great as you think they are.
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