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I'll be the odd man out and say not to kiss her. That seems drastic from "I don't know if she likes me" to kissing.
I would do something like ask her out on an official date. "If you say no, this will NOT affect our friendship, but I would like to ask you out on a date. Yes, a romantic one."
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From a woman's view. There was a man I really wanted to get close to- my heart melted every time I saw him, but he never made a move.
Eventually I moved on because I needed intimacy, but I still miss him.
A little background; I was always considered attractive & he was overweight. I wish he would have asked me out, but he never did. He did look hurt when he saw me with someone else, but a woman can't wait forever.
From a woman's view. There was a man I really wanted to get close to- my heart melted every time I saw him, but he never made a move.
Eventually I moved on because I needed intimacy, but I still miss him.
A little background; I was always considered attractive & he was overweight. I wish he would have asked me out, but he never did. He did look hurt when he saw me with someone else, but a woman can't wait forever.
Ask her out.
The only thing I would say is did you give him obvious signs of interest?
If not, you can't blame him for not making a move. A lot of guys won't make a move if they don't sense the woman wants them to.
Thanks for the reply ellie! We do hug a lot. I suppose i should have asked her when her friend left.
DUH. So what are you waiting for???
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I'm really scared that she is going to move on and stop viewing me as a potential boyfriend because i'm too scared to escalate it. But by escalating the relationship i am scared of losing her completely. if that makes sense..
What the hell are you afraid of?? Nothing ventured nothing gained, dude. Jeez I don't get all these "I'm skeered" threads.
Tons. We went to the same corner bar after work & he even brought his mom once & introduced us but he would never make a move, even though I suggested doing things together. I think he may have thought I was looking for a meal ticket, which I wasn't. I was living with my mom at the time.
I always worked & was only living with my mother for HER sake, not mine. Such is life.
If you were interested in her you should have asked her out on a date and tried at least to kiss her then. The whole thing with trying to be her friend first, then bf is a waste of time.
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