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It doesn't sound like it was much of a relationship. It sounds like she wasn't into you, which would explain why she didn't broadcast to the world that you and she were an item.
For whatever reason, she felt it wasn't a good match, and wasn't into you. Let it go and move on.
I agree. It's possible she was a witch OR also possible she didn't consider whatever you guys had as a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
I was once in what I thought was a relationship many years ago but it turned out that although I considered the guy to be my boyfriend, he just considered me someone to be intimate with or to "kick it with" if he didn't have anything (or anyone) else to entertain him at a given time. Eventually, I realized I deserved better.
Whatever that girl's deal is, forget her. You'll find someone more deserving of you who appreciates you far more and will be proud to be in a relationship with you. Don't give that girl another thought.
Yeah, I knew a guy in my early twenties who was part of a big group of people who hung out that included my housemates and I. He started showing up at my work and asking to get lunch, and tried to pair off with me while we were out doing things with others. It was clear he was interested, but I wasn't. He evidently thought that his pursuit of me constituted a relationship, even though his attention was not reciprocated. I found out several years later, after I'd moved away, that he considered me to have "messed him around so badly." Um, no. That's not what happened.
The big problem I see is the age difference. You are still a teenager, she is a grown woman. The 5 years wouldn't be a big deal if you were 28 and she was 33. Maybe she wanted someone with a little more experience in bed? I know when I was 22 I preferred older men because they were more mature and knew how to please a woman in bed (well, not all of them, but much more than an 18 year old).
How much in common did you really have? Consider her a learning experience and don't let this one relationship consume you. You have a lot of growing up to do and a lifetime of experiences ahead of you.
Weeeaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh !!!!! is all that comes to mind.
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