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Why are you asking why? It doesn't matter what kind of guy she says she likes. It doesn't matter if you think you're in her league. Emotions are not logical. Stop trying to make things line up.
She has developed some kind of feelings for you, or some sort of desire to see you display feelings for her. That's what her behavior points to.
Are they sincere feelings or just based on feeding her ego? Who knows. All you need to ask yourself is if finding out means more to you then what you have with your current girlfriend. Do you want her romantically? If the answer is no you need to spell it out for her in plain language. No mercy. She doesn't sound like the kind of girl who will go away easily if you soft petal it. There can be no room for doubt.
This will be the end of your pleasant work relationship. Be prepared.
Both you and she are attention whores. You each crave the attention that the other one gives.
BTW, I'm sure your girlfriend would be thrilled to hear that you are flirting with a girl at work who is "out of your league."
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