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Some of you may know about my threads posted about a girl i was dating I broke it off a few days ago. I won't lie i feel sad real sad actually about our good times together and looking at all the pictures we took together but i deleted everything. I told her the reason why that we are just two different people with different interests and lifestyles. I also said you need a country boy and i'm not that and we also moved too fast. She agreed. She turned out to be real country redneckish which wasn't obvious until i moved in with her. That was the least of the issues though. She had two kids 4 and 6 and some things had me weirded out about how she would take care of them. The kids would hardly ever brush their teeth and rarely took baths. I'd say two baths a week and i really never saw them brush their teeth before bed except once. Also in the morning she just rolls out of bed at the last second doesn't even comb the kids hair. The one time the boy had serious bed head and man his hair was a huge mess. I said should we comb his hair? and she did. If i didn't say anything she would have just went out with him like that. Same with me mentioning they should take a bath a few times. The kids are at daycare all day with roughly 15 other kids and running around outside they need to take baths every day in my opinion and def brush their teeth every night. But i'm not a parent and i'm sure i'll have more hate on me for saying this
Anyway it's over now to some of my haters are you happy now?
It is for the better. Once the pain goes away, you'll see more clearly.
Hugs to you and I respect that you were man enough to say something to her about the bad parenting.
Well, sorry for the break up, the bigger concern of mine are these kids, she's really not on the ball it wouldn't seem.
Sorry for the kids at the end of the day. Just this little bit you posted I hope is the worst of how she raises and cares for them. Too early to scream abuse, but flags, they are a flyin'
No joke, I feel bad for you but seriously what the hell? She doesn't keep care of her kids! Kids need a bath everyday! I sometimes let them go every other day, but not often! And brushing teeth.....after breakfast and at bedtime, EVERYDAY NO EXCEPTIONS! I wonder if she even takes them for dental and doctor check ups?? Truly sad!
OP, it's ok to date someone with kids. You obviously don't have an issue with that, but you don't even have kids and know that as a mother you have to teach your kids hygiene! It's a mothers job to take care of her kids. If she's not, then that's no women for you! There are many single women out there with and without children. If you find another with children make sure she's a good mom or don't give her the time of day!
Hang in there, the one for you is out there somewhere!
No joke, I feel bad for you but seriously what the hell? She doesn't keep care of her kids! Kids need a bath everyday! I sometimes let them go every other day, but not often! And brushing teeth.....after breakfast and at bedtime, EVERYDAY NO EXCEPTIONS! I wonder if she even takes them for dental and doctor check ups?? Truly sad!
OP, it's ok to date someone with kids. You obviously don't have an issue with that, but you don't even have kids and know that as a mother you have to teach your kids hygiene! It's a mothers job to take care of her kids. If she's not, then that's no women for you! There are many single women out there with and without children. If you find another with children make sure she's a good mom or don't give her the time of day!
Hang in there, the one for you is out there somewhere!
I do know that it's common sense. Just remember every woman who had kids wasn't a mother at first either but most of them learn to become one even you.
I do know that it's common sense. Just remember every woman who had kids wasn't a mother at first either but most of them learn to become one even you.
What I meant is that YOU even knew that they needed baths and you're not even their dad. They are 4 & 6, she should have known by now that her kids need baths and to brush their teeth. I am also a mom of two kids and I seriously had NO clue what I was doing when I had my first child. I had never even changed a diaper, but you learn pretty quick. You read books when pregnant, take classes or ask others such as my mom, aunts, friends, etc. Bottom line, she just wasn't taking care of her kids. You're better off without her. I'm not saying rule out single moms, just bad one's.
You'll find someone great!
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