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Old 12-02-2016, 03:40 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Seems like an odd thing to even think about, but each to their own. I assume everyone I date has dated before and probably has items, pics, whatever from that time.
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Old 12-02-2016, 03:42 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Anytime a guy sent "personal pictures" I immediately deleted them without looking.

I've never been comfortable with that type of thing. I doubt this would change if I was dating the person but who knows.
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Old 12-02-2016, 03:43 PM
 
Location: The city of champions
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I keep the nudes of all of women I've been with. It's just a fun reminder every now and then knowing that I had her. It's sort of like a trophy. I have text pics, videos, you name it.
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Old 12-02-2016, 03:47 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I keep the nudes of all of women I've been with. It's just a fun reminder every now and then knowing that I had her. It's sort of like a trophy. I have text pics, videos, you name it.
Okay, you are my perfect man to ask - what would you say if your beloved gf would ask you to throw them all out? And do you actually look at them? Why?
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Old 12-02-2016, 03:55 PM
 
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I keep the nudes of all of women I've been with. It's just a fun reminder every now and then knowing that I had her. It's sort of like a trophy. I have text pics, videos, you name it.
Why am I getting a serial killer vibe?
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Old 12-02-2016, 04:29 PM
 
Location: Florida
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What I don't understand is that if he would want to keep them but they're packed up and stored away and he doesn't look at them...why keep them???
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Old 12-02-2016, 04:34 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I keep tons of photos I never look at (boxes and boxes of slides, thousands), I don't have many of women I dated, but tons of landscapes, animals, etc I've taken over my life. Is there a reason I shouldn't keep them?

I also have a lot of my better undergrad and grad school papers. And books I've read, records I probably won't play, etc.
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Old 12-02-2016, 04:58 PM
 
Location: The city of champions
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Okay, you are my perfect man to ask - what would you say if your beloved gf would ask you to throw them all out? And do you actually look at them? Why?
Well, if it's a woman I'm in love with and want to be with then sure. I'll get rid of them. As of now though that hasn't happened. Like I said in my previous thread, it's kind of cool having my own homemade porn. I'm the director, producer, and main actor. It's also nice knowing the specific nude photos taken were for me only.
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Old 12-02-2016, 04:59 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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I still shoot film exclusively, actually.

I don't excise people from my life in real life, or otherwise though, unless they were toxic for some reason. Most people I've dated are still friends at some level, been to many of their weddings (went to one about 3 weeks ago actually). I don't think I took any naked pics of her though. I prefer non-human animal nature photography, personally.
Good to know...again, you don't have to stop being friends...but keeping explicit pics of someone when you're boinking someone else (other than a ONS, FB, or FWB) is not cool. You can keep all the clothed pics and even clothed pics with them holding a nature animal.
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Old 12-02-2016, 04:59 PM
 
Location: The city of champions
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Why am I getting a serial killer vibe?

Oh please. Nowhere near that. A bit of a perv? Yes.
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