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I'm not certain I'm understanding the subject sentence and then what you describe. Do you mean, just sending pictures of you two to exes, provided the exes and your SO are still friends?
I don't know...I can't see anything wrong with that, if they actually are still friends.
I had an ex send me a card for years with a picture of him and his son, whom he conceived while cheating on me, on the card. It had been many years, he'd looked me up again, we spoke briefly and then just fell away from talking pretty soon. But he sent the cards for a few years. I was fine with it. It didn't bother me. On the other hand, I was with someone, then married; maybe if I had been alone I'd have thought he was rubbing my face in it? I don't even know. I just felt like he was lonely and wanted to stay in touch and after all, no matter the circumstances, the child WAS there and of course he was proud of and loved the child.
Now if I weren't on good terms with the person (or at least cordial ones), and that person's SO sent me Christmas cards of the two of them? I'd take that as attempted nastiness. I might just laugh at it but either way it would look classless.
I bought a fat stack of custom holiday gift cards wishing happy holidays with pictures of us on various vacations and locales scattered over the cards. My SO responds to one of her exes when he messages her and other random dudes that have tried to date her but got shot down and are friend zoned.
I used white pages to send all of them a copy of the holiday gift card (in addition to our extended families, friends, colleagues, etc).
Are you planning on marrying this woman any time soon? I mean, since you apparently want to let these other guys know that she's yours now.
This could also backfire on the OP if any of these guys thinks she sent the cards as a way of keeping in touch or something.
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