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Old 12-19-2016, 10:04 AM
 
Location: Plano,Wylie, Ft Worth TX
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Hun, take a deep breath and really think about your life and how you want to spend the rest of it. Your husband may be going through somethings but that doesn't give him the right to take everything out on you and he is definitively taking you for granted. The part that gets me is that he disrespected you in front of everybody, seems like he no longer cares. Not only that, he didn't check up on his sick wife when you were out on the road. I'm not going to say divorce him because I just went through a divorce and it sucks but you may be already on the way to one if things don't change for the better.
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Old 12-19-2016, 10:08 AM
 
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These types of actions should not surprise or bother you, just as they shouldn't surprise or brother you in the future. You are well aware of the man you married, and have taken no steps to change it, infact put up with it years. As of right now this is your life and this type of stuff will happen in the future, unless you take steps to move on.
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Old 12-19-2016, 11:08 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Wait, what? Your hubs shouts at you that you're not part of the family, and have no right to talk to your own kids "that way"?! What the heck is that all about? You've had two daughters with him, right? Or not? Sorry, I'm out of the loop. And why would anyone get upset that you don't allow kids who can't swim to get in the pool? Unless they had inner tubes, or some other flotation device?

Has much of the marriage been like this?
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Old 12-19-2016, 11:11 AM
 
Location: Earth
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Wait, what? Your hubs shouts at you that you're not part of the family, and have no right to talk to your own kids "that way"?! What the heck is that all about? You've had two daughters with him, right? Or not? Sorry, I'm out of the loop. And why would anyone get upset that you don't allow kids who can't swim to get in the pool? Unless they had inner tubes, or some other flotation device?

Has much of the marriage been like this?
And the pool deal is discussed in this thread. You'll get the full picture here.
//www.city-data.com/forum/grand...pas-wrong.html
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Old 12-19-2016, 11:13 AM
 
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Wait, what? Your hubs shouts at you that you're not part of the family, and have no right to talk to your own kids "that way"?! What the heck is that all about? You've had two daughters with him, right? Or not? Sorry, I'm out of the loop. And why would anyone get upset that you don't allow kids who can't swim to get in the pool? Unless they had inner tubes, or some other flotation device?

Has much of the marriage been like this?
I don't have any kids of my own. His kids are m y kids, and have been for 15 years, because his ex-wife has been in prison all their lives.
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Old 12-19-2016, 11:13 AM
 
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damn, i would go with you lol. sorry that happened
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Old 12-19-2016, 11:20 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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^^^ Thank you, Vanilla-C. My question still stands: has much of the marriage been like this? I was thinking that couple counseling might help, but that's not going to turn him from a supreme jerk into a normal person.
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Old 12-19-2016, 11:24 AM
 
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Why were you throwing up? Were you sick or that upset?
I say quit counting on other people for things that important. Learn to go it alone, you may end up that way, and you'll be ready.
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Old 12-19-2016, 11:39 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Why were you throwing up? Were you sick or that upset?
I say quit counting on other people for things that important. Learn to go it alone, you may end up that way, and you'll be ready.
This is what I was wondering. Was it stress, or did you pick up a 24-hr. flu bug?
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Old 12-19-2016, 11:42 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Have y'all never been so stressed/anxious/worried/upset that you became sick to your stomach???

Meeting the child she gave up for adoption, with all the anticipation, worry and fears about that, is stressful enough, not to mention all the husband stuff.
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