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Basically I tried online and sent some women some messages as well as got some of my own. In fact, the ones who messaged me were more interested than the ones I messaged it turns out. So I went on a few dates with a few of them. Four to be honest.
Basically I was taking it easy after being in a long term relationship last year, and I tried dating again, but with not much luck. So I put on my profile that I was not really looking for anything serious, and just taking it slow.
One girl messaged me and asked me what I was looking for, and I said not anything serious. She said she was not also, so we agreed to meet up.
I had a really good first date with her and we had a lot of fun, surprisingly. The second date was good, but for a large portion of it, she kept paying a lot of attention to her phone, other than me, so it wasn't as good as the first date, but still good overall. And she talks to me the most out of all of them, texting wise.
Basically I took a nap a few days ago, and woke up and checked my phone. She was texting me, accusing me of "f#$@ing another girl" as she kept wording it. I said I was just taking a nap. She asked me if I had went out with any other women from the site, or just in general. I said I met up with a few others, so far, but mostly just had one date with the others, accept for one of the other three, which I had two dates with.
Now I told her I was not looking for anything serious and she said neither was she, so, was I unfair or did I cross the line since I went on dates with three other girls?
We were not in a relationship or exclusive or anything and not doing anything serious and I texted her that, but in a nice, way to try to establish things. But she didn't text me back and is now refusing to talk to me. So I was wondering if I was being a jerk or anything... What do you think?
Basically I tried online and sent some women some messages as well as got some of my own. In fact, the ones who messaged me were more interested than the ones I messaged it turns out. So I went on a few dates with a few of them. Four to be honest.
Basically I was taking it easy after being in a long term relationship last year, and I tried dating again, but with not much luck. So I put on my profile that I was not really looking for anything serious, and just taking it slow.
One girl messaged me and asked me what I was looking for, and I said not anything serious. She said she was not also, so we agreed to meet up.
I had a really good first date with her and we had a lot of fun, surprisingly. The second date was good, but for a large portion of it, she kept paying a lot of attention to her phone, other than me, so it wasn't as good as the first date, but still good overall. And she talks to me the most out of all of them, texting wise.
Basically I took a nap a few days ago, and woke up and checked my phone. She was texting me, accusing me of "f#$@ing another girl" as she kept wording it. I said I was just taking a nap. She asked me if I had went out with any other women from the site, or just in general. I said I met up with a few others, so far, but mostly just had one date with the others, accept for one of the other three, which I had two dates with.
Now I told her I was not looking for anything serious and she said neither was she, so, was I unfair or did I cross the line since I went on dates with three other girls?
We were not in a relationship or exclusive or anything and not doing anything serious and I texted her that, but in a nice, way to try to establish things. But she didn't text me back and is now refusing to talk to me. So I was wondering if I was being a jerk or anything... What do you think?
OP, you'll run into crazy people as you date around. That's what that one was; she started accusing you, almost hysterically, why--because you didn't respond to her texts promptly enough? Block her. Or text her that you're taking a break from dating, while you decide what you really want. Then block her.
Okay. I mean it is true I saw some other girls, but not at the time of my nap, when she thought I was. She asked me for some details, but I didn't feel like telling her everything, so I may have lied a bit to get off the subject, but overall told the truth...
I do like her though and would like to get her come around and be cool with me, if that's possible.
Basically I tried online and sent some women some messages as well as got some of my own. In fact, the ones who messaged me were more interested than the ones I messaged it turns out. So I went on a few dates with a few of them. Four to be honest.
Basically I was taking it easy after being in a long term relationship last year, and I tried dating again, but with not much luck. So I put on my profile that I was not really looking for anything serious, and just taking it slow.
One girl messaged me and asked me what I was looking for, and I said not anything serious. She said she was not also, so we agreed to meet up.
I had a really good first date with her and we had a lot of fun, surprisingly. The second date was good, but for a large portion of it, she kept paying a lot of attention to her phone, other than me, so it wasn't as good as the first date, but still good overall. And she talks to me the most out of all of them, texting wise.
Basically I took a nap a few days ago, and woke up and checked my phone. She was texting me, accusing me of "f#$@ing another girl" as she kept wording it. I said I was just taking a nap. She asked me if I had went out with any other women from the site, or just in general. I said I met up with a few others, so far, but mostly just had one date with the others, accept for one of the other three, which I had two dates with.
Now I told her I was not looking for anything serious and she said neither was she, so, was I unfair or did I cross the line since I went on dates with three other girls?
We were not in a relationship or exclusive or anything and not doing anything serious and I texted her that, but in a nice, way to try to establish things. But she didn't text me back and is now refusing to talk to me. So I was wondering if I was being a jerk or anything... What do you think?
Welcome to OLD.
I had a girl that I met online I was very frank up front that I was in a "dating" stage meeting multiple people. In other words, I was not committing to anyone anytime soon. I stated these precise words to her on the first date.
Well the poor girl did not get it apparently, and it wasn't long before I was receiving hostile messages from her questioning why I still had my profile up, etc. Yada yada it doesn't matter. We never even so much as kissed on two, yes only TWO dates. I basically told her I did nothing wrong and I after how she acted I didn't want to hear from her again.
It happens. You did nothing wrong. Ghost her and move on lol. You've given her more of a response than some of the girls I've dated.
Ghost, block, and defriends on facebook (if you made that error already lol)
Okay thanks. I haven't friended her on facebook. Well I guess I could not talk to her again, but I feel like I should at leat try to get her to give it another shot, since we had fun.
Okay thanks. I haven't friended her on facebook. Well I guess I could not talk to her again, but I feel like I should at leat try to get her to give it another shot, since we had fun.
You can try, sure, as long as you recognize when she is exhibiting behavior that you aren't comfortable with. Listen to your gut when it tells you about red flags.
You aren't dating her exclusively, so she has no right to grill you about who you are seeing.
She sounds nuttier than squirrel poop. Or paranoid at the very least blowing up your phone while you were taking a nap. If you do continue to date her, remember, this is her being her best self for you. Honestly, I think there are better women out there for you who can be just as much fun without the drama.
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