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Old 12-21-2016, 02:37 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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what evidence you want to collect? Divorce is a civil case not a criminal case. If the marriage are not working for you just take some time for your self. Take care.
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Old 12-21-2016, 07:03 PM
 
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Thanks everyone for the replies. And yes I've been to counseling many times in the past for self esteem issues. I had anorexia three times in my life which is mainly what I've gotten the counseling for. I was doing well with eating but now I'm so depressed over my marriage that I've lost weight again. I'm down to 122 pounds at almost 5'9". I grew up in an extremely violent household, my dad was very verbally and physically abusive to mainly my mom, but me sometimes also. My mom has still stayed even tho he's cheated and punched her many times. I never had a good marriage role model. My current husband marcos claimed to want a family and happy life together, but now I found these naked pics and other things in his phone so I no longer trust him. This morning I sent him a s*xy message saying "I wish I could have you for breakfast in bed." His response? "I have to think about if you deserve it. I have to leave at 6 am for work every morning due to traffic...he has been hinting that he thinks I'm cheating with a coworker, it is ludicrous.
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Old 12-21-2016, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I never had a good marriage role model.
So how have you chosen to get married twice?

You say you've "been to counseling" many times. Was it not effective? Did you go for long-term therapy or just a few sessions?
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Old 12-21-2016, 10:10 PM
 
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Short sessions, probably wasn't enough. My husband just got home from soccer at 10:00 tonight. He told me he was angry because I took a pic with a male coworker at our office Christmas party...he's 20 years older than me. He told me never take a pic with another man. I'm about at my breaking point, i almost told him tonight I want him to move out. I will not have a man treat me as a possession any longer...
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Old 12-21-2016, 10:14 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn
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Stop talking, it's time for action. Seems like you are his puppet on a string.
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Old 12-21-2016, 10:32 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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There are many people with " H virus" and are happily together... dont let that keep you in a crap relationship
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Old 12-21-2016, 10:50 PM
 
Location: Out there somewhere...a traveling man.
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I think we'll see this story on "Dateline" one day titled "Two of a kind, ends in disaster".
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Old 12-21-2016, 11:02 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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All kinds of stupid 16 yr old level drama here.
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Old 12-21-2016, 11:23 PM
 
Location: Italy
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You should not be married until you fix your inner problems. Do you realize the horrible damage you would do to society if you had a son with that guy? Unfortunately somebody else probably will but don't let that thing come out of you. If what you say is true your husband is basically a grown up man acting like an insecure degenerate fist pumping low iq bro at college. But again hard to feel sympathy for women marrying complete douches and complaining afterwards.

This thread is funny because we have on this same page discussions about intelligence being attractive and at what age people are wise enough to have sex.
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Old 12-22-2016, 12:11 AM
 
Location: Sloooowcala Florida
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Not sure what to think about this thread.
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