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If you are seeing someone(girlfriend/ wife/ boyfriend/ husband), how long would you allow someone to disappear for? Ex. you call someone or text and 2 hours go by, you try again. Then another 3 hours go by an you reach out and still no reply. Assuming the whole day goes by after 2-3 calls and 2-3 messages what would you do? I always felt that if a person tries to contact you, you would get back within an hour or 2 but some people are very distant or too caught up with what they are doing.
If you are seeing someone(girlfriend/ wife/ boyfriend/ husband), how long would you allow someone to disappear for? Ex. you call someone or text and 2 hours go by, you try again. Then another 3 hours go by an you reach out and still no reply. Assuming the whole day goes by after 2-3 calls and 2-3 messages what would you do? I always felt that if a person tries to contact you, you would get back within an hour or 2 but some people are very distant or too caught up with what they are doing.
What basically go missing?
It depends on if I know or suspect they are busy or not, I'm easy going but if I'm actually with someone then yes at some point in the day I'd like it returned.
I'm not sure what you're getting at mate?... How long would it take before I think they have ghosted/left me?
If so it would depend on our usual level of communication... If we talked all the time and she didn't get back to me say later on in the evening or the next morning I'd be more concerned she had an accident or worse.
I'd think that before I worried or thought she ghosted me without saying a word ( Never happened to me thankfully as it's an awful thing to do and especially if we're exclusive )
It depends on if I know or suspect they are busy or not, I'm easy going but if I'm actually with someone then yes at some point in the day I'd like it returned.
I'm not sure what you're getting at mate?... How long would it take before I think they have ghosted/left me?
If so it would depend on our usual level of communication... If we talked all the time and she didn't get back to me say later on in the evening or the next morning I'd be more concerned she had an accident or worse.
I'd think that before I worried or thought she ghosted me without saying a word ( Never happened to me thankfully as it's an awful thing to do and especially if we're exclusive )
Yeah ghosted where she just stops communicating for a day or 2 but then returns like it's ok saying that she was busy or her phone was off(mind you she can reach you several ways but thinks it's not that important). I just hate the feeling of not being important to people I care for.
Depends how involved I am with that person. A spouse: I would want a quick reply or I'll begin to get worried. Girlfriend: I can go a few days. Ex/FB/FWB: I could really care less if they ever call back, to be quite honest.
Depends how involved I am with that person. A spouse: I would want a quick reply or I'll begin to get worried. Girlfriend, I can go a few days. Ex or FB/FWB I could really care less if they ever call back, to be quite honest.
I would agree with that but if when it's your wife or close girlfriend goes missing especially on Christmas and holidays, it kinda hurts honestly. I'm not feeling all that good.
Yeah ghosted where she just stops communicating for a day or 2 but then returns like it's ok saying that she was busy or her phone was off(mind you she can reach you several ways but thinks it's not that important). I just hate the feeling of not being important to people I care for.
If I knew she was busy ie work/break etc then that's fine as I know what's going on beforehand mate but yeah to suddenly shoot off and no contact then that would annoy me a touch as I'd think she's hurt/had an accident or something so it is rather insensitive.....this if she were an actual SO.
But there's too many variables to take into factor.... The level of communication, How busy we are, How close/exclusive we are etc to give an accurate answer
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Happy Christmas guys and girls!!! How is your holiday Londoncowboy?
Mines been terrific thank you ( I've just left a rep wishing you a good day as well lol )
I would agree with that but if when it's your wife or close girlfriend goes missing especially on Christmas and holidays, it kinda hurts honestly. I'm not feeling all that good.
If it was my wife or girlfriend ever ghosted me the entire Christmas day/Holidays, I'd say we have a f-up relationship.
Personally, I would never let it get to that point.
If I knew she was busy ie work/break etc then that's fine as I know what's going on beforehand mate but yeah to suddenly shoot off and no contact then that would annoy me a touch as I'd think she's hurt/had an accident or something so it is rather insensitive.....this if she were an actual SO.
But there's too many variables to take into factor.... The level of communication, How busy we are, How close/exclusive we are etc to give an accurate answer
Mines been terrific thank you ( I've just left a rep wishing you a good day as well lol )
I know there are too many, when my woman has been upset she would ghost about 2-3 days straight ignoring all my calls and texts. I'm glad it's going great!!!!
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If it was my wife or girlfriend that ghosted me the entire Christmas day/Holidays, I'd say we have a f-up relationship.
Personally, I would never let it get to that point.
Yeah well I know I did. Wish I could have prevented stuff like this.
I know there are too many, when my woman has been upset she would ghost about 2-3 days straight ignoring all my calls and texts. I'm glad it's going great!!!!
Yeah well I know I did. Wish I could have prevented stuff like this.
Yeah if we have had an argument/something/she was upset and needed her space then I'd know that's the reason why I've not seen her/returning my calls but at least I knew she was safe
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