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And your ex wife was okay with the sudden change in living arrangements in terms of the kids now sharing a room as opposed to having their own? She didn't file a motion contesting that?
They have always shared a room.. in fact I got a compliment from her for renting a place with a room for them as her dad never did that and she never had a room at her dads house. The marital home was sold fairly quickly as neither of us wanted to stay there..
She thanked you for complying with most judge's rulings that children need a room in both parents home after a divorce? Well, that's nice of her.
What law, I could be wrong about this but I doubt it's a federal law.. it's probably state specific and I doubt every state has it on the books.. either way, it's something I would be doing as they need to have basics at each household.. that includes, a room, a bed, clothing, food, etc..
It's just strange to me that in all of these rants about your girlfriend, you don't seem to have much concern over how all the recent upheavals in your childrens' life is affecting them. Divorce, only seeing father on the weekend, new home, new maternal figure in the home, new quasi-siblings? No big deal for you because your unemployed, peniless girlfriend who may or may not care well for the children living in your home is a "cute lil redhead"?
I think I like to think I believe in people and just thought she needed some help to get going.. maybe I'm a sucker.. probably, but I refuse to believe that people don't want to improve themselves and their situation. As to the Ho thing, I'm going to ignore that as it's pretty demeaning to women..
No..it's not demeaning to me, and I'm a woman. See, its not demeaning to ME cause I'm not the one with kids, no job, and living off a man and refusing to work and barely doing anything around the house.
You met an unemployed, homeless, irresponsible cute little redhead with two mouths to feed (who are not supported by either parent), moved her into your (and your two children's) home and your life, and now you are coming to the forum to figure out what to do with your unemployed, homeless, irresponsible (but cute!) redhead with two unsupported mouths to feed.
This is rich.
Yah..and I work(good career) own a home, no kids, I'm sane, not hot but considered "cute" , awesome personality () and adventurous...in all sorts of ways.
But I have a hard time finding a even a halfway decent guy.
Sheesh I think I would have had a better chance being a ho
Well..this is actually the gist of it, isn't it? She looks good. That's important for men..the looks.
Well..there you go. Support her deadbeat butt then.
You guys complain, yet you allow women to do this to you.
I haven't heard him complain about the sex yet.
Maybe it's just me.
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