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Old 01-07-2017, 09:04 PM
 
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Yeah, like there's a 23 year old on her way over to cuddle with me and watch Gilmore Girls reruns. lol




She is financially independent, she doesn't need to say it. She's not the one I'm worried about.
Well what will you do if your spouse came clean and said that they were sleeping around
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Old 01-07-2017, 09:06 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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... no baggage from previous bad relationship ....
... but plenty of other baggage.
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Old 01-07-2017, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Central TX
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Well what will you do if your spouse came clean and said that they were sleeping around
Well that's not an easy question to answer unless it happens but I like to think we'd both do the work to figure out how our marriage failed and I would eventually forgive her. People are human and you don't just walk away from 28 years.

That's the simple answer, at least.
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Old 01-07-2017, 09:23 PM
 
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Well that's not an easy question to answer unless it happens but I like to think we'd both do the work to figure out how our marriage failed and I would eventually forgive her. People are human and you don't just walk away from 28 years.
Well you would eventually forgive her but look at the scenario. She was sleeping with another guy behind your back. That means she lied to you and in front of god when you got married. And trusting a person like that again would be questionable because how would you know if she would ever pull that stunt again?
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Old 01-07-2017, 09:24 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Well you would eventually forgive her but look at the scenario. She was sleeping with another guy behind your back. That means she lied to you and in front of god when you got married. And trusting a person like that again would be questionable because how would you know if she would ever pull that stunt again?
What does this have to do with your initial post?
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Old 01-07-2017, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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What does this have to do with your initial post?
An excellent question!
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Old 01-07-2017, 09:27 PM
 
Location: Traveling
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Well you would eventually forgive her but look at the scenario. She was sleeping with another guy behind your back. That means she lied to you and in front of god when you got married. And trusting a person like that again would be questionable because how would you know if she would ever pull that stunt again?
I can't believe I read this entire thread. It's no secret why you can't find someone. One hour-or less- of your rants would send a reasonable woman running.
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Old 01-07-2017, 09:34 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Que Sara Sara!
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Old 01-07-2017, 09:34 PM
 
Location: Central TX
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Well you would eventually forgive her but look at the scenario. She was sleeping with another guy behind your back. That means she lied to you and in front of god when you got married. And trusting a person like that again would be questionable because how would you know if she would ever pull that stunt again?
Well like forgiveness, it would take some time to rebuild trust as well. And I'm not sure that god was on the beach with us that day, just the non-denominational reverend that we hired and his assistant holding the video camera. Don't Christians preach forgiveness anyway?

This is a moot point anyway, I married a loyal woman. Sorry to derail the thread, like I said I'm bored tonight.

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Old 01-08-2017, 01:09 AM
 
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I can't believe I read this entire thread. It's no secret why you can't find someone. One hour-or less- of your rants would send a reasonable woman running.
Well a person like you talking like that to me would find herself at the door looking pathetic
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