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The strip club story really pulls it all together.
Your man wanted a submissive woman, he got it - but here's the thing - you can only submit to him.
It really is his problem tho. If you don't, won't, or can't assert yourself with him, how can he expect you to assert yourself with others when they cross the line..
- Hugging the customer is absolutely and 100% unproffessional conduct.
But he cares enough to get so upset about it? Okay makes sense.
No. No no no no no.
Jealousy is not a sign of love. What's next, he cares enough to slap you when you do something wrong? That's not how you show you care.
If he truly cared about YOU, his first reaction would not have been to ACCUSE you of harming him.
He will apologize and things will seem better, but within a couple of weeks, something else will blow up, OP. If it does, be prepared to walk because it will NOT get better.
Jealousy is not a sign of love. What's next, he cares enough to slap you when you do something wrong? That's not how you show you care.
If he truly cared about YOU, his first reaction would not have been to ACCUSE you of harming him.
He will apologize and things will seem better, but within a couple of weeks, something else will blow up, OP. If it does, be prepared to walk because it will NOT get better.
This is the gist of it. The situation with the electrician was awkward, and unprovoked and unwanted. The husband felt uncomfortable hearing what happened and he lashed out at the OP who was pretty much the victim of the electrician's awkward actions. Maybe victim is a strong word, but technically a victim.
And regarding hugs, I work with adults with developmental disabilities. We really discourage hugging, except when the occasion or the relationship justifies it. We have several people who are known indiscriminate huggers. They're mentally retarded and in many cases have at least some slight mobility issues (they're not fast). Still, I get caught in a hug I tried to avoid several times per year. So a non disabled person getting a hug in before you can (gracefully) avoid it rings 100% true to me. Husband needs to get a grip.
my guess is with the holidays just passing he was in the habit of hugging family and friends at every holiday gathering and you got hugged because of his recent muscle memory of repeated hugging.
That's possible. I've been guilty of that after attending family gatherings myself. I would do the handshake/air kiss on the cheek routine automatically and then want to kick myself for doing so..
OP.. bottom line is if it's make you feel uncomfortable then go with your gut feelings. Either find someone else to work for you or don't be around when he's working.
And regarding hugs, I work with adults with developmental disabilities. We really discourage hugging, except when the occasion or the relationship justifies it. We have several people who are known indiscriminate huggers. They're mentally retarded and in many cases have at least some slight mobility issues (they're not fast). Still, I get caught in a hug I tried to avoid several times per year. So a non disabled person getting a hug in before you can (gracefully) avoid it rings 100% true to me. Husband needs to get a grip.
I've had this happen on occasion and I dont work with those with developmental disabilities.
I also had a long awkward hug by a guy who T-boned me. The cops were working the accident and I finally was able to get out of the car and he came over and apologized and gave me this big long hug..
And of course people who are drunk seem to like to hug.
If there is no groping or meshing of certain body parts I wouldn't think too much of it. Some people are just weird huggers.
Of course there does. She was asking for it. Maybe she was wearing a certain shirt. Or had had an alcoholic beverage sometime in the last six months. Or did not put on her head scarf that day.
Good grief.
lol! +1! (Couldn't rep you)
The missing puzzle piece is that she came out in her negligee to settle the bill with him.
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