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Old 01-12-2017, 03:14 PM
 
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Hi..
I will try to be short as possible.. And I know pretty much (I think) the answer.. But I still doubt myself all the time
I have a situation with my boyfriend. He works hard and wanted to go on vacation together.. Which I do not mind.. But my job circumstances demand me to go on vacation a week after the date he wants it.
So he said he is going by himself.. Well.. I can justify him.. He is very tired and all that. But I would wait no matter what.. So.. Just opinions..
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Old 01-12-2017, 03:18 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Why can't he just wait another week?
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Old 01-12-2017, 03:22 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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What can you really do about this situation?
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Old 01-12-2017, 03:22 PM
 
Location: San Diego
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He's going with another happy woman.
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Old 01-12-2017, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Did he know ahead of time that you could ONLY go that one week?
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Old 01-12-2017, 03:31 PM
 
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on vaca.......going on a trip???


or just taking time off??

has he got plane tickets or advanced reservations?
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Old 01-12-2017, 03:32 PM
 
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I guess there is nothing I can do.. But I think.. well.. Do I really want to be with this person. .. Rhetorical..
He cannot wait because he is tired and burnt out and he thinks I am ready for the test(my new job) .. And I would feel more comfortable if I have more practice... So i need just a week..
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Old 01-12-2017, 03:33 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Can you not study on the trip?
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Old 01-12-2017, 03:35 PM
 
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He have not gotten any tickets.. It is not that I am ruining something .. We talked about vacation to go to Mexico but were not sure what date..
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Old 01-12-2017, 03:35 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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I guess there is nothing I can do.. But I think.. well.. Do I really want to be with this person. .. Rhetorical..
He cannot wait because he is tired and burnt out and he thinks I am ready for the test(my new job) .. And I would feel more comfortable if I have more practice... So i need just a week..

Now you change the story.

So, in reality, you are not going the planned vacation because you would rather study for a test?
What sort of test is that important to skip a vacation over, and why can't you prepare for it before (and/or during) the vacation?
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