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Old 01-14-2017, 02:36 PM
 
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A customer came to apply for a house and seemed like he was interested in me. He asked my name, then told me his as he left. He came back the next day and asked me who would help him with his housing application as I was going somewhere else. I came back to cover for a colleague so when we were alone he asked 'how have you been?' even though it had only been a day since I saw him and he randomly said 'he was sorting himself out' - I think he was referring to his housing and job situation. When he left, he ignored my colleague and he looked at me and went. Was he interested? I did fancy him but felt I couldn't act upon it being at work. I don't know if I should have been more receptive or left it.
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Old 01-14-2017, 02:40 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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It sure seems like he was probably putting out feelers.

If he comes in a third time with a random question, you'll know!
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Old 01-14-2017, 08:00 PM
 
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Hard to say.
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Old 01-14-2017, 09:02 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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He was just nice and polite because he is applying for a house. As we know, being nice and maybe even a bit flirty goes a long way...
Small talk. Nothing more...

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Old 01-15-2017, 09:57 PM
 
Location: Fargo
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He was just nice and polite because he is applying for a house. As we know, being nice and maybe even a bit flirty goes a long way...
Small talk. Nothing more...
Many people are nice by nature, so it could be hard to distinguish. It happened to me that women were very nice to me without having any interest whatsoever.
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Old 01-16-2017, 01:38 AM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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Who knows? It's not unusual if the customer related better to you rather than your colleague who helped him, but then to you there's more to it because you fancy him.
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Old 01-16-2017, 01:52 AM
 
Location: United States
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I'd go with a person being cordial.
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Old 01-16-2017, 05:35 AM
 
Location: Pa
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If he's from the south too he may of fancied you too.
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Old 01-16-2017, 07:55 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Hard to say. I could have said all the same things and I'm a woman.
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