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Don't bother chasing someone who doesn't want you. Don't text him anymore. If he contacts you don't respond.
Don't you want a man that wants to be with you?
^^^ More good advice.
People with similar relationship dilemmas (and there are many of them) can express themselves on these forums as they wish. However, it must be pointed out that very few follow the generally sound and well-intentioned advice they receive from other members.
There may eventually be another 300 or more replies in this thread before it burns itself out like a dying star in the galaxy ... it is also free (unlike therapy sessions), but there is no substitute for making the common sense changes previously shared and moving forward with your life.
I fully understand that the OP is hurting ... but nobody can make another person respond on any of these social media sites with any greater degree of success than you can make them like you, love you or marry you. Whatever happened continues to be a mystery and a shock to the OP's central nervous system. There is always more than one side to a break-up ... leave it at that and do not make yourself crazy.
Even after it all now being done I still can't believe he treated me so Bad.
He had me totally in the palm of his hand..
So perhaps now it's time to reflect on your own feelings and actions and come up with a game plan on how you will learn and change from this experience?
I am sorry. Do something for yourself that makes you feel better. Surround yourself with friends and go out, have some fun. Forget that dbag.
Good advice!
A lot of people are being way too holier than thou on this thread. It's great that some of you have the whole relationship thing figured out and are awesome at life, but sometimes people aren't so great at relationships and get screwed over. And they want to know why, even though they may never know.
Let the poor OP vent instead of putting her down. Jeez.
I'm not sure if I mentioned In my other thread I suffer with anxiety/depression.
So when something happens I struggle to cope.
This has made me feel worthless,for the first time in months I felt wanted and happy.
Then he was gone..I thought he cared about me but I'm not stupid I know he didn't or he couldn't of treated me like this.
Then today when I noticed he removed me from snap chat ..a meaningless APP I felt like I was a nobody not even worthy of being a "friend" on there.
What did I do to make him dislike me so much..
I'm not sure if I'm making sense
I'm not sure if I mentioned In my other thread I suffer with anxiety/depression.
So when something happens I struggle to cope.
This has made me feel worthless,for the first time in months I felt wanted and happy.
Then he was gone..I thought he cared about me but I'm not stupid I know he didn't or he couldn't of treated me like this.
Then today when I noticed he removed me from snap chat ..a meaningless APP I felt like I was a nobody not even worthy of being a "friend" on there.
What did I do to make him dislike me so much..
I'm not sure if I'm making sense
I understand because I've been there. It's like he threw your relationship away and never cared. But you have to realize that this is your anxiety talking. I think the logical part of you realizes that he is the a hole in this scenario, right?
I'm not sure if I mentioned In my other thread I suffer with anxiety/depression.
So when something happens I struggle to cope.
This has made me feel worthless,for the first time in months I felt wanted and happy.
Then he was gone..I thought he cared about me but I'm not stupid I know he didn't or he couldn't of treated me like this.
Then today when I noticed he removed me from snap chat ..a meaningless APP I felt like I was a nobody not even worthy of being a "friend" on there.
What did I do to make him dislike me so much..
I'm not sure if I'm making sense
Maybe the guy is just an ass. Probably. Asses do bad stuff like this. I get that you're hurting and maybe now isn't the time, but in a few days look at how much power you gave him (anyone) that removing you from an app you describe as useless made you feel like a nobody. Again later, look at his actions as being about him, and your reactions as being about you, and ponder which you have control over.
I'm not sure if I mentioned In my other thread I suffer with anxiety/depression.
So when something happens I struggle to cope.
This has made me feel worthless,for the first time in months I felt wanted and happy.
Then he was gone..I thought he cared about me but I'm not stupid I know he didn't or he couldn't of treated me like this.
Then today when I noticed he removed me from snap chat ..a meaningless APP I felt like I was a nobody not even worthy of being a "friend" on there.
What did I do to make him dislike me so much..
I'm not sure if I'm making sense
You are making total sense. It happens to many of us.
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