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Ummm ya... I read the thread but thanks for your psychoanalysis.
OP says she misses the contact. The second he said: "im not allowed to see my kid & oh! I have an anger problem!" She should have hit the bricks. All this "where did things go wrong/rehashing" could have been avoided.
Of course she should have hit the bricks, but you are viewing this from a healthy perspective rather than from the perspective of someone with anxiety and poor self esteem.
Work on you and learn what you're worth. In a few weeks you'll wonder why you let this jerk occupy your mind.
Hopefully. This sounds all too familiar to me. I have a friend who is going through a similar situation. I and other friends have told her to take time out for herself. She wouldn't. Now she's suicidal.
Of course she should have hit the bricks, but you are viewing this from a healthy perspective rather than from the perspective of someone with anxiety and poor self esteem.
I myself have poor self esteem, and anxiety and I saw that one from a mile away. I think poor self worth is the larger factor along with poor self esteem.
I think I find it hard when people vanquish me from life in such a way.
I think my anxiety plays a massive part.
It's just a horrible feeling that I wasn't worth it to him.
The whole snapchat thing-fair enough didn't want to see me anymore,I respected that but to delete me when he has hundreds of friends on that app,seemed cruel,like what harm was it doing having me on? I never messaged him.
Eventually I know il get over it,I wish I could think clearly sometimes.
I can't believe you are freaking out THIS much over social media.
Imagine the resulting horror if someone's smart phone malfunctioned for even a few days. Perish the thought ... no Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, Twitter ... will they ever live to see another sunrise?
It's not about him not being on my social media it's the thought behind it
Appreciate the clarification ... it is always the thought that counts.
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