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Old 01-18-2017, 11:52 AM
 
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I have met a guy who is interested and likes me but I'm not sure about the situation. He is 36 and has a 3 year old and 1 year old. He and the children's mother split just after the 1 year old was born. This guy then moved back in with his parents and is unemployed. I don't know if I should get involved as I don't have children and I have not dated a single father.
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Old 01-18-2017, 12:01 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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- Umemployed.
- Two kids.
- Living with mom.

If you can't make a decision knowing those facts, nothing we can say will help you make a positive decision.
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Old 01-18-2017, 12:07 PM
 
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Hello, New Poster with an Obvious Answer to an Inflammatory Question:


Riddle me this: Why WOULD you get involved?
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Old 01-18-2017, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Is not the kids, but the fact that he is unemployed and living with his parents. Did you asked him why he has no job? Does he have any education? Skills? Ambitions? Is he looking for job, or looking for a GF to move in and get supported by her?
Is he interested in you, or you are interested in him (and why?).
You need to figure it out...
From your previous posts you seem to be desperate. Please, don't or you will attract only losers.

Last edited by elnina; 01-18-2017 at 08:20 PM..
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Old 01-18-2017, 12:42 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I have met a guy who is interested and likes me but I'm not sure about the situation. He is 36 and has a 3 year old and 1 year old. He and the children's mother split just after the 1 year old was born. This guy then moved back in with his parents and is unemployed. I don't know if I should get involved as I don't have children and I have not dated a single father.
uhm.
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Old 01-18-2017, 12:51 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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You seriously aren't considering this are you?
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Old 01-18-2017, 12:52 PM
 
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- Umemployed.
- Two kids.
- Living with mom.

If you can't make a decision knowing those facts, nothing we can say will help you make a positive decision.
Agreed.
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Old 01-18-2017, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Chotchkie's
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Assuming this is a serious question posed by the OP, why would you even consider getting involved with this human train wreck? He sounds like someone who is going to sponge off of anyone who gets into a relationship with him.
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Old 01-18-2017, 01:02 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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-Unemployed
-Two kids
-Still lives at home with his mother

Anybody else see the red flags here?
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Old 01-18-2017, 01:10 PM
 
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I have met a guy who is interested and likes me but I'm not sure about the situation. He is 36 and has a 3 year old and 1 year old. He and the children's mother split just after the 1 year old was born. This guy then moved back in with his parents and is unemployed. I don't know if I should get involved as I don't have children and I have not dated a single father.
Dude sounds like a winner, maybe you can make it three kids by two baby mommas.
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