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I found out that my crush is not only in a relationship, but he's gay. GAY! I guess that is what I get for not having enough guts to just talk to him, and just admiring him from afar. I'm sure I would've picked up on something if I had talked to him earlier. I'm still somewhat hoping that he is at least bisexual because I'm quite confused why he would behave like a straight man who seemed to be attracted to me as well. At this point, I don't know if I should even feel flattered or not. Such a loss and I'm so disappointed.
I knew it was too good to be true - 40 year old very good looking guy, no ring, gives me attention like no other, maybe even single? This is why I don't like to approach men! I always find out they're taken even though they may act like they're not, but this one had me by almost complete surprise.
I knew it was too good to be true - 40 year old very good looking guy, no ring, gives me attention like no other, maybe even single? This is why I don't like to approach men! I always find out they're taken even though they may act like they're not, but this one had me by almost complete surprise.
Happens to men all the time. Youll get used to it. Dont give up
..I'm quite confused why he would behave like a straight man ...
I have to wonder what this means. Do all gay men act a certain way that straight men don't act like?
This isn't a romantic situation, but I once found out a person I had hung out with on several occasions in a group was on the sex offender registry for lewd behavior with a minor.
Happens to men all the time. Youll get used to it. Dont give up
Thanks. This has taught me to have more confidence and just talk to the guy I'm interested in from now on.
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Originally Posted by NealIRC
Hmm, how'd you meet him?
Gym, specifically the weight room where it's usually 90% men.
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Originally Posted by oh-eve
how do you know he is gay?
He's been sharing the same addresses with another man his age for the last 20 years. Both never married and are not related. I doubt they are just roommates. And he said he was "seeing someone" and not "I have a girlfriend."
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Originally Posted by HansProof
I don't Google people. Feels like I'm invading their privacy. I'm weird like that. Would rather live in ignorance than find them naked on Tumblr.
Even though most have disappointed me when I Googled them, it has saved me a lot of trouble from giving them further chances.
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Originally Posted by Murk
I have to wonder what this means. Do all gay men act a certain way that straight men don't act like?
I just assumed he was straight because he kept checking me out all the time and always tried to get close to me whenever he saw me. He also had a hunky, masculine look about him versus the "pretty boy" look. Also, usually gay guys do not check me out.
He looks more like Zac Efron in this picture http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2016/...7477268789.jpg (but this picture of Efron only. Usually, Efron would appear too pretty for me, but in this picture he appears more masculine.)
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