Love Doesn't Exist (married, men, different, relations)

[NYtoNJtoPA]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=colaUyOVCp8


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wuDi0i7_ug

I heard these two things and I agree with Anthony. My shrink tells me I'm jaded. I've had several unsatisfactory relationships over the years that I've stayed in out of loneliness and settled. And the best ones always got away. Thoughts anyone?

[elnina]

My shrink tells me I'm jaded.

Listen to your shrink... he probably knows you better than you do.

[lipsydavis]

Mod cut: Orphaned (reply to post which has been deleted).

Young man, love does exist. The proof is all around you.
I think the op has had a string of bad luck. I wasnt always married and I wasnt always happy. I hope you figure it out op.

[Metaphysique]

He seems bitter and jaded like a lot of men who've experienced failed (incompatible) relationships, and/or he has an under-developed EQ.

[zentropa]

Maybe it just doesn't exist for YOU.

Others who have experienced it over the course of human history are just different from you.

[Auraliea]

May not exist for you.

But it does for others.

Nothing to be upset about though.

[asianrocker]

Originally Posted by NYtoNJtoPA

I heard these two things and I agree with Anthony. My shrink tells me I'm jaded. I've had several unsatisfactory relationships over the years that I've stayed in out of loneliness and settled. And the best ones always got away. Thoughts anyone?

Love is work. If you are not willing to work for it, then ya, it will not last. Talking from experience. From a former 40 year old virgin.

It's when I let go of my ego, that's when love found me and stayed. And yes I am continuously working for it to stay.

Fact of life.

[funymann]

Originally Posted by asianrocker

Love is work. If you are not willing to work for it, then ya, it will not last. Talking from experience. From a former 40 year old virgin.

It's when I let go of my ego, that's when love found me and stayed. And yes I am continuously working for it to stay.

Fact of life.

Exactly,

Love does not look for it's own interests.

[CSD610]

Mod cut.

OP: Love is not found on youtube or any other www site and your experience in the past should have no affect on your future.
Almost everyone has at least one really bad relationship experience, learn from it, get over it, move on or........not.
Your choice to stay in the self pity party rut.

[reneeh63]

Love is a VERB. It doesn't just drop down from the sky and happen for you and then exist forever. Both people have to want it and nurture it. If you crap on them or each other then ....no.