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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
Mom's right!
I also get annoyed by all the talk about leagues, and I think mco65 nailed why here ^^^.
It's important to be realistic about your appearance, because we all are only human, but you don't have to be LIMITED by your appearance, and you can't limit others that way, either.
I'm not the greatest looking guy (I have a thread about my physical flaw) but I'm also interested in dating women. I speak with my female cousins, and they told me that it's because I'm "way outta my league". I shouldn't be getting at 10s when I myself am a 3. I wanted to know, do you guys feel the same way? I mean, I'm already a business owner and building wealth at age 18 and when I do become successful (bringing positive energy to myself lol) I'll have my pick of the litter when it comes to women, but at the same time do I want a woman that doesn't love me for me? How do you guys feel about it?
Buying a puppy?
Learn how to refer to a woman properly, she is not a puppy, farm animal or material bought from a fabric shop.
As far as being out *not outta* of your league, whatever you believe must be true.......
Probably not. That's the thing about dating, though; whether they are attracted to you is the other person's decision to make, not yours.
It doesn't mean you can't or shouldn't assume you're not eligible. You can't make that decision for them by pre-emptively removing yourself from competition.
Once they let you know, though, you (the universal "you," not YOU personally) should respect their choice instead of faulting an entire gender, "the system," etc.
Why are you aiming at 10's? Why not go for the women with the best personality who have their act together? Those would be all over the spectrum. I'm assuming you want someone you can get along with, right?
This
Be careful of the gold diggers!
They've been scamming people since the begining of time.
The tendency is for people to stay within their own 'league'. I don't advocate for 'leagues', but that is how most people operate. Having said that, there are, of course, many exceptions and a large portion of those look like 'rich guy and hot gal'. That's because the human animal tends toward attractive female and good provider male.
This is changing as we evolve, but that has been our general legacy so far. Again, there are many exceptions.
I'll have my pick of the litter when it comes to women,
If by "litter" and "women" you mean hordes of professional gold diggers who know how to remove your spine and empty your bank account 6 months later, then yes, you have that to look forward to.
I like the outside/inside thing. It would be a disappointment if upon driving up to a very nice looking house only to find the inside undesirable.
Oh, I wouldn't say that at all, as a real estate investor! Those are exactly the kinds of properties I'm looking for! I renovate older houses and make them look like new inside. Of course, the only disappointment would come if the owner (or the bank or HUD) refused to accept my offer considering the cost of the renovations and what the property would sell for after renovation.
Oh, I wouldn't say that at all, as a real estate investor! Those are exactly the kinds of properties I'm looking for! I renovate older houses and make them look like new inside. Of course, the only disappointment would come if the owner (or the bank or HUD) refused to accept my offer considering the cost of the renovations and what the property would sell for after renovation.
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Originally Posted by oldwoman
Ever try renovating another person? Really tough go.
Right! At least someone understood my illustration.
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