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and now i just got that i think you meant spur marks like skid marks...oy...i'm slow. it's late here in california, i think i need to go to bed. or maybe that's not what you meant. yeah...i should go to bed.
This is a pretty common fetish & rather innocuous IMO. No one is getting hurt. OP shouldn't do anything she is not comfortable with, that goes without saying. But for me, this would be a no big deal & would rank about a 0 on my list of relationship concerns.
Had an eBay friend that had a lucrative business making custom 'fancy' underwear for men, some of it real baby-ish with ruffles and all.
The 'baby' type were usually in a different category.You can google that and find diaper wearing, bonnets, bottles, etc.
But, back to just the undies, for the highest prices she had to use the best nylon and satins and they paid quite a lot.
She got to chat with some of them and they all told her they did not wear them when others would know about it and other than the undies, they went no further.
I find the subject of men wearing women's clothing fascinating. It is such a taboo thing for genders to cross dress, especially when it's a man. Why? It brings into question his sexuality. Is he heterosexual or homosexual? Could I accept it if he is bisexual? Also, I think it calls into question my confidence in how desirable I am to him.
I have been dating a man for three months now, he really is wonderful, caring and fun to be with. However, a few days ago I learned something about him that I certainly was NOT expecting.
I was at his apartment and asked him where the bathroom was, he said in his room so I go in and after doing my business I noticed one of the drawers to his dresser was open and being kind of OCD I just was going to close it. Low and behold it has a lot of women's underwear in it! I walk into the living room where we were and ask him about it, I did say that I wasn't snooping just saw it open.
He gets bright red and tells me that he has an embarrassing habit of buying and wearing women's underwear but none of them are stolen or anything like that. He also said he wasn't trying to hide it but as he put it, how do you tell someone you are dating you like to wear women's underwear? Now we have been intimate and I have seen him without clothes so obviously it's not something he wears exclusively. Anyway he seemed sincere and though I was shocked I stayed, finished our movie and I left we didn't say anything else about it.
I just don't know how I feel. I get that even great guys can have their quirks so I am torn. Women, would you be willing to over look this if he were an otherwise great guy?
Taster, I applaud you for doing what most people seem not be able to - you COMMUNICATED straight forward and to the point. Congratulations!
I guess if I really, really like a guy, I would accept this habit and let him celebrate it in front of me. BUt I would also ask him if there is anything further I should know of. Not sure how far my love would go in accepting more than that quirk.
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