I agree LOL. I've viewed so many male dating ads that almost all have the same and the guys' all seem to have the same personality....
"I like to stay active by doing Cross Fit, Rugged Man, and yoga so it's important that you are active too (basically they are saying no overweight women but skinny non athletic women of course are still checked off as a preference lol....). My friends describe me as fun and laid back. I enjoy traveling and cooking on my grill. I'm looking for a girl who is beautiful inside and out who can go from wearing jeans to a little black dress."
That seems to be how men in my area are in their 20s-30s. It's all basically the same guy.
What attracted to me to the guy I started dating was that he mainly just spoke about his job and interesting places he has traveled to (Korea, Kuwait, Columbia etc.). It was refreshing.
I asked him how he found me on online and why he messaged me.He said I showed up along with other women as a small thumbnail but that he clicked on me because he loved my username (it was a very specific name based off an episode of a cartoon that typically don't watch), that he saw I had a sense of humor (I basically lied in the about me by saying the above thing that most men say about themselves and he laughed about it), was beautiful (I awwwed when he said that on our 2nd or 3rd date), and marked conservative as my political views LOL. He told me something interesting too. He said he typically doesn't message women first and waits for them to do it. I was surprised because I thought it was the opposite.
Anyway we actually have walked on the beach 3x but I live 1 block from the beach lol.... I guess technically we weren't on the sand but on the walking path on the beach