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Too late, they left to the beach together half an hour ago. I mean I was invited but I really didn't want to go. And I wish we had sex, seriously. We obviously didn't have sex for the two months I was gone, and we only had sex once since I'm back, that was the night I came back, a few hours before she arrived. Ever since, she's around all the time, and last night he talked alone to her til 1am, so no time to even try to have sex with him.
Houseguest aside, you and your bf have problems. Might want to be honest with yourself and truly assess your relationship.
Houseguest aside, you and your bf have problems. Might want to be honest with yourself and truly assess your relationship.
Yes, we do have problems. Currently, the situation with that girl. Second, marriage. That's it. Especially the second one is definitely serious and I have definitely thought about what to do if we actually never get married. Our relationship is pretty amazing for most part, and I'm really happy usually. No point in lying about this on an anonymous forum.
Houseguest aside, you and your bf have problems. Might want to be honest with yourself and truly assess your relationship.
They texted and skyped every day while she was gone. He was excited when she returned. Holding hands in fron of the houseguest. They had sex immediately and all night when she returned.
Then the houseguest showed up and it wasn't clear if she stays a day or a week.
He stayed up all night - so there wasn't an opportunity for sex. He probably slept in while OP got up earlier. So there wasn't an opportunity to have sex.
When else should they have had sex in your opinion? They are together for 4 years, it is not like they are 20 and just met and are still super wild.
They texted and skyped every day while she was gone. He was excited when she returned. Holding hands in fron of the houseguest. They had sex immediately and all night when she returned.
Then the houseguest showed up and it wasn't clear if she stays a day or a week.
He stayed up all night - so there wasn't an opportunity for sex. He probably slept in while OP got up earlier. So there wasn't an opportunity to have sex.
When else should they have had sex in your opinion? They are together for 4 years, it is not like they are 20 and just met and are still super wild.
She was out of the country for 7 months or something like that. One session of sexy-time does not make up for that absence. And then he immediately moves another girl in to their house. Um, hello?
Your boy friend is either thick or insensitive. I wouldn't want to be married to a guy like that. But it's your call.
He is acting like it is his home and his call who gets to stay there and for how long. He clearly doesn't want to get married.
He has one foot in single-land.
If I was the OP I would act like an adult and tell this woman that it's been nice having her but I would like her to leave my home now so I and my BF (sadly, not husband, which would certainly make the interloper treat the couple with more respect) could have some privacy after 8 months apart.
He is acting like it is his home and his call who gets to stay there and for how long. He clearly doesn't want to get married.
He has one foot in single-land.
If I was the OP I would act like an adult and tell this woman that it's been nice having her but I would like her to leave my home now so I and my BF (sadly, not husband, which would certainly make the interloper treat the couple with more respect) could have some privacy after 8 months apart.
But it hasn't been nice having her. Nothing could be further from the truth.
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They are together for 4 years, it is not like they are 20 and just met and are still super wild.
