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You could have and should have spoken up about your wanting certain things from him early on rather than just letting your resentment build up and then say about the worst possible thing to him. There are much better ways to handle all of this - he can do nothing about his size so if that's a dealbreaker you should have ended it immediately. The rest you can at least tell him and give him a chance to learn more about what you like.
It took a half hour to write a rambling repeating post. Never mind the fact that threads about height and weight etc at not permitted here. And the OP attacks others who take issue with "her" story as "trolls." Weak. Very weak.
How would you feel if he told you that you had a huge vagina? Pretty horrible I assume. It's done, over, there's no coming back from this.
Why do you want him anyway when he obviously can't please you sexually? You seem turned off by his small frame and he seems like a selfish lover anyway.
Quit calling the man and get out of bed like a grown woman and move on with your life. Find a man that turns you on and maybe stop being such a mean drunk. Sorry to be so blunt but this is a ridiculous problem to have.
Yes, he is offended and humiliated. Telling a man he has a small [penis] is like telling a woman she is ugly. There is no undoing it.
Stop deluding yourself: He was not looking for a way out; You Were. You repeated, more than once, that you were not initially attracted to him; that he was boyish and petite; sex was not good; that he would never Mod cut.; and that sex was one-sided. Then you did this:
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Originally Posted by Gloriabailey16
.... I just looked straight to his eyes & said ' You have a small [penis]
"In vino veritas" (In wine there is truth). And you looked right in his eyes and said it. It's rude, but for reasons unknown, I find you sexy for having the balls to say it like that.
You definitely need a man on your level who will respond properly to this:
Mod cut.
Bottom Line: He owes you nothing. You were not wrong; just inappropriately honest. Stop dating guys you know are wrong, and then punishing them for not meeting your expectations.
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You are incompatible with each other. You insulted and humiliated him about his member during the deed. You shouldn't be surprised by his silence. He doesn't owe you any closure--you need to find that for yourself and then move on.
This ^^^^^
OP you really cannot fix this. I would encourage you to chalk this up to a very important lesson learned. Also, although you don't want it to, his small frame I think really bothered you, and if you stayed together I'm afraid that you might bring that up time and again when you have an argument -- that's really cruel and not fair to him. Try to move on and find someone more to your liking physically as well as emotionally, and let this be a lesson learned. When you tell a man you have lost interest, when you insult him about a part of his body that he can do nothing about (or even something he could do something about) -- when he is naked and vulnerable, you are being cruel and crossing a line which you can't undo unless he is a total masochist (which surely you would not want anyway).
Let this go and move forward -- good luck!
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