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A former flame reached out to me after not having contact for eight years. Our date was fun, but I found I wasn't attracted to him anymore. (He hasn't taken care of himself: long, messy hair with a bald patch, belly and untrimmed greying beard.)
On our date he told me he had been seeing "the hottest girl ever" until he fired her. Apparently they worked together at his bar, he fired her for some reason and she tried to sue him. (Fun drama.) He told me he'd spent in excess of $5k helping her with car payments and helping out with her two children, under the age of 5 with two different baby daddy's, and that she wasn't grateful. At the very end of our date, he tried to arrange a hook up with me, out of town at a hotel the following night! (I politely declined.)
We hung out a few more times and I thought I could try and maintain a platonic friendship, but he soon started playing games. I stopped being available and we both stopped contacting each other. I recently spied on his FB and see he's now in a relationship with the same lady he bashed to me on our date.
We both look similar - blue eyes, brown hair, pale, wrinkle-free skin, both of us pretty (only difference is that I have dimples and no piercings...she has her nose pierced). She looks slightly younger than me. However, I own my car, don't have kids and have zero debt/drama.
Why would a guy pick this chick with all this drama over someone not behaving like a gold digger? Is it to feel needed? Just curious.
A former flame reached out to me after not having contact for eight years. Our date was fun, but I found I wasn't attracted to him anymore. (He hasn't taken care of himself: long, messy hair with a bald patch, belly and untrimmed greying beard.)
On our date he told me he had been seeing "the hottest girl ever" until he fired her. Apparently they worked together at his bar, he fired her for some reason and she tried to sue him. (Fun drama.) He told me he'd spent in excess of $5k helping her with car payments and helping out with her two children, under the age of 5 with two different baby daddy's, and that she wasn't grateful. At the very end of our date, he tried to arrange a hook up with me, out of town at a hotel the following night! (I politely declined.)
We hung out a few more times and I thought I could try and maintain a platonic friendship, but he soon started playing games. I stopped being available and we both stopped contacting each other. I recently spied on his FB and see he's now in a relationship with the same lady he bashed to me on our date.
We both look similar - blue eyes, brown hair, pale, wrinkle-free skin, both of us pretty (only difference is that I have dimples and no piercings...she has her nose pierced). She looks slightly younger than me. However, I own my car, don't have kids and have zero debt/drama.
Why would a guy pick this chick with all this drama over someone not behaving like a gold digger? Is it to feel needed? Just curious.
Because you wasn't interested he took the next available option it sounds like.
Because you wasn't interested he took the next available option it sounds like.
You're right. I wasn't sure about rekindling anything with guy. Just didn't think he could pull another pretty chick. His ex gf looked like a tranny. I still know he isn't for me. But thanks for the comment.
It doesn't. I was just curious. Apparently, I answered my own question. I was just curious into the male psychie.
The male psyche is a lot like the female psyche, only a bit taller on average.
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(I politely declined.)
I still have no regrets not sleeping with him after not talking for 8 years. Who knows where that thing has been!!