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Old 02-16-2017, 02:22 PM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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When is a good time to have a talk like that
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Old 02-16-2017, 02:24 PM
 
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When is a good time to have a talk like that
Didn't you already have this talk and she told you she wanted you to slow your roll?
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Old 02-16-2017, 02:34 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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She doesn't seem that interested in you. Sorry.
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Old 02-16-2017, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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Then why say yes to hanging out Saturday for my birthday?
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Old 02-16-2017, 03:35 PM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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I have slowed my role. Like more than I ever have before.
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Old 02-16-2017, 03:38 PM
 
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Then why say yes to hanging out Saturday for my birthday?
Then she's probably interested! Just keep texting to a minimum. Maybe call once a week for now? The guy I'm dating literally asked if I didn't like texting cuz I don't initiate any contact with him but I answer all his calls and text him back in a timely manner. I told him to call me if he wants to talk and he's been doing just that once a week and maybe text 2-3x a week. You cannot expect all the girls to like texting.. honestly, texting should only be used to set up dates and occasional hi's lol.

You should ask on Saturday if she is seeing other guys... maybe talk about exclusivity if you are serious about her. Just DONT BE NEEDY. Needy guys are a huge turn off!!!
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Old 02-16-2017, 04:04 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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You need to go on a couple of day trips on some kind of adventure so you can start building memories to share. That will make you feel more connected.
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Old 02-16-2017, 05:53 PM
 
Location: Østenfor sol og vestenfor måne
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Is she introverted? If so, she may well be very into you, but just doesn't need a lot of contact time to feel close to you.

I agree with ellie. You need to change from 'getting to know you' dates, to 'experience' dates. That seems to be the path to spending more time together and being a couple doing things together rather than just two people who are dating.
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Old 02-16-2017, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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I don't know, Sunday we went out early and went to Milwaukee to a public Market and to a Beer Brewery before the impractical Jokers concert we had a awesome time. We didn't really text that much but I did send flowers to her work to her. She was happy and said they were beautiful.

We didn't text much then I asked her if she wanted to go out Saturday to this place
In Chicago she's been wanting to go. (Also my bday). She said yes and asked me if I could help her with her taxes before we go. Then I didn't text her today and she texted me and asked if she could get her oil changed at my work Monday. I said sure no problem. She's like to sleep in so I said 1-2 would be perfect...she doesn't work on mondays. And asked how my day was and how I was feeling and I answered and then she goes cold...she does this allllll the time. I might not here from her the rest of the night.

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Old 02-16-2017, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Nashua, NH
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I think I'm done with this girl. She just isn't for me. I mean my friend just texted me and said he saw her on tinder...and then he's also on POF and I guess she was active so obviously she cares more about dating. I mean I'm going to be 30 on Saturday I don't want to deal with competition. Either you like me or you don't. If your going to be a serial dater then don't bother talking to me.
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